my friend is pregnant Options

[ItzOnlySydney]

ok so my friend heather is about a month or two pregnant. and she keeps asking me what to do and i don't know what to tell her. the father says he wants her to keep it but she just turned 15 and she is such a pretty and smart girl and she has her whole life ahead of her. gosh she keeps asking me for advice and idk what to tell her because i've never been pregnant before so basically it all boils down to one question :
abortion, adoption, or keep it?

this is her btw:

[HoodieObsessed]

That would be a difficult situation.

...very difficult.

if I were her...Id probably give up for adoption...maybe...unless my mom and dad said they'd help me take care of it or like if the father chiped in too. than it mihgt be possible. but with all the homeowrk an stuff, I jsut don't think I'd be ready, I'd probably give it up for adoption or do abortion. I donno, it's a really hard choice.

...it's really hard work keeping a child...you have to take her/him to kindergarten, be a responsible parents and give him/her ALOT of attention. I don't think I could handle it.

but the final choice is up to the mother, jsut support her in anyway you can, be a shoulder she can lean on

EDIT

Actually, I would probably choose abortion...as harsh as it sounds I truly beleive it does not actually cause the baby visical harm/pain. maybe I'm wrong. I don't know. maybe she shoudl look into abortion as an option and research it and see if it's what she wants to do. or she could also research the choice of giving it up for adoption and see if tha'ts what she wants to do.

I guess the reason Id' choose abortion rather than adoption is because alot of things can go wrong with adoption. the kids can be sexually abused by their foster parents or maybe they'll never even be adopted. also even if the kids get into a ncie family they'll still want to know their real mother, they'll feel empty. tha'ts why I'd chose abortion. even though it sounds less humain than adoption, in my veiw it's almost more humain.

...it's such a hard choice this is why I don't plan to have sex before maraige, or if I do at least with the man I'm planning to marry.