i think i don't believe in true love anymore... Options

[KELLYYY]

That's right. You heard me.

This might be long:

There's this girl named Sally. Sally likes Jeffrey(my crush), but she won't admit it. It's SUPER obvious that she likes him. One time, I said to her, "Sally, if you like Jeffrey, why don't you just admit it to me? That way, you can stop lying. If you're honest about it, I wouldn't be mad at you because you're honest with it." After all I said, she walked away from me acting like I didn't say shit to her.

One time afterschool, I came out of my classroom when the bell rang, and Sally was in front of me, so was Jeffrey. Sally saw me, then she went and started feelings on Jeffrety and she satrted flirting with him, IN FRONT OF ME. I'm like, is she trying to make me jealous or something?

Of course, Sally is rich, but all the guys say that she's ugly. Sally has a boyfriend. Yes, believe it or not, she does. But.. the point is, her boyfriend dated her because he wanted Sally to buy stuff for him, in other words, he's using her. Of course, Sally has no idea about it. Now, ALL the guys that Sally likes want to go out with her and do whatever her boyfriend did. Sally thinks she's "all that" just because her crushes want to go out with her. And this includes Jeffrey. Yes, Jeffrey wants to go out with her because he wants her to buy him some expensive shoes.

The point is, become Sally came along, me and Jeffrey had a connection. I even was about to ask him out. But the day before the day I planned to ask Jeffrey out, Sally came along, and that made me change my mind. She's trying to take him away. Jeffrey was my dream man. He was everything I wanted. But now, I feel like I lost him. I tried REALLY hard to win him.

So I asked my friend, Stephanie, to ask Jeffrey if he likes me, he said no. Then, Stephanie asked Jeffrey if he USED to like me, he said yes.

Should I just keep fighting for Jeffrey or should I just forget about it and move on? I'm really confused right now.

Thanks you LOTS for reading this long post.

[CrazayChristian]

Woah dawg,

First off I'm just not feeling it. I mean there is one thing I know and that's "Attraction isn't a choice." you can't turn yourself on (in theory) but turning yourself off just takes time dawg. Your young, use your hormones to your advantage and lean towards someone better.

See, the problem is that most guys that you would describe as "a guy you want" unfortunatly will NOT attract you. See when you talk about the "perfect guy" you talk about a guy who is everything you say you want AND your attracted to. You will find alot of guys you think are "perfect" and one of 2 things will happen:
1.You will like someone else next week
2.You will still day dream about him months later.

I belive we call #2 "Mental Masterbation" why? Because you see him as perfect, you imagine him as perfect, but you can't judge him unless you've been his BEST FRIEND/Girlfriend for a year plus. (This way you see the true him)

Sorry if this was a little graphic for you young'ns