Expecting to not expect things. Options

[crazeegirl411]

I hate it when people get mad at you when you don't feel sad about something, or you can't dislike/hate something about your looks.

If you feel that way, you feel that way...you shouldn't try to hide the fact that you hate some part of your body. Maybe you shouldn't hate it...but that's how you FEEL. You shouldn't supress how you feel, and try to stop complaining about it even in your head. If you don't like it, you don't like it...

And if you don't feel sad about something, you shouldn't try to be sad so it doesn't seem like you are heartless. It means you don't feel sad, or you have moved on.

We should accept the flaws of people...when they don't feel sad about something, or when they don't like something about themselves.

Also...when people see something horrible about someone else and go, "I'll NEVER complain about what I have right now," they probably won't complain about it, but they will still feel it. So why stop complaining if it means you'll have to supress those feelings?

[lovescream]

I agree.
Whenever I feel confident, people go, "omfg.. wtf is your problem? I feel soooo insecure! I look effing fat!" and I like my body. And they just call me stupid or whatever.
And about that sad thing.. yeah. I didn't really know this person who got hurt or something. My friend told me about it, and I just acted like "okay.. sorry for them?" And.. I can't really be said because I never knew that person personally. My friend and I weren't even that close. But yeah.. She pretty much seemed like that she expected me to cry or something.