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my friend is pregnant
ItzOnlySydney
post May 24 2005, 07:26 AM
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ok so my friend heather is about a month or two pregnant. and she keeps asking me what to do and i don't know what to tell her. the father says he wants her to keep it but she just turned 15 and she is such a pretty and smart girl and she has her whole life ahead of her. gosh she keeps asking me for advice and idk what to tell her because i've never been pregnant before so basically it all boils down to one question :
abortion, adoption, or keep it?

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kill me please
post May 25 2005, 10:25 AM
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i dont like getting into the whole thing over abortion or not. because i infact support it, i mean as long as the babys not over 3-4 months then i dont feel like its killing life. i know lots of people would disagree with me but thats just my opinion. and yes i know the bible blah blah blah... so i'll just leave it at that because im getting off subject.
my friend got pregnant when she was 16..turn 17 during it all.. anyway the father acts like he wanted to be supportive but hes not. she had to go to night school, cant do what she wants in life. and she missed so many things, i feel bad for her. the babys going on 1 now, and im sure she doesnt regret having her, but she probably wishes she didnt make so many mistakes in life.
bottom line.. if it was me, as harsh as it sounds, id abort. because i just couldnt handle that.. and as a matter of fact i never want any kids even when im older so yeah=/
 

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ItzOnlySydney   my friend is pregnant   May 24 2005, 07:26 AM
BBY_UNiQUE   my sister is 15 and pregnant but she's married...   May 24 2005, 10:56 AM
iSH_CHiPMUNKYYY_8D   QUOTE(BBY_UNiQUE @ May 24 2005, 10:56 AM)my s...   May 24 2005, 06:05 PM
sweet_devil   QUOTE(BBY_UNiQUE @ May 24 2005, 11:56 PM)my s...   May 27 2005, 08:43 AM
miss barnes   just because she's pregnant doesnt mean that i...   May 24 2005, 11:57 AM
vampireduster   QUOTE(miss barnes @ May 24 2005, 10:57 AM)jus...   May 24 2005, 06:14 PM
mzkandi   She can have a very sucessful and happy life with ...   May 24 2005, 12:02 PM
ItzOnlySydney   QUOTE(mzkandi @ May 24 2005, 12:02 PM)She can...   May 24 2005, 03:56 PM
mzkandi   QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ May 24 2005, 4:56 PM)no...   May 24 2005, 06:17 PM
Shortiiex   ask her "do you think you will be happy?...   May 24 2005, 02:09 PM
love_101_213   that's tuff for her and her family i jess but ...   May 24 2005, 02:43 PM
DisneyPrincessKate   If her dad wants her to keep it then he is probabl...   May 24 2005, 04:33 PM
i heart john   She's going to have to go through a lot of obs...   May 24 2005, 05:29 PM
AngelicEyz00   Abort.   May 24 2005, 05:30 PM
Frankie   no!!! don't abort! ^ --- do yo...   May 24 2005, 05:42 PM
AngelicEyz00   It's not a baby it's a fetus. Think being ...   May 24 2005, 05:46 PM
xcaitlinx   id get an abortion. mainly for the fact that id st...   May 24 2005, 05:48 PM
i heart john   Um, guys, you forget that I was 13 when I was preg...   May 24 2005, 05:51 PM
beautifuls0ul_x3   QUOTE([f]eleeza @ May 24 2005, 4:51 ...   May 25 2005, 01:13 AM
dorischu   QUOTE([f]eleeza @ May 25 2005, 7:51 ...   May 27 2005, 10:02 AM
snak3y3z1001   tell her to do what she feel is right   May 24 2005, 05:54 PM
mouse_3k   thats her mistake tell her to deal with it. She sh...   May 24 2005, 08:21 PM
xSonia   Since her father knows, keep it..oterwise ..my frd...   May 25 2005, 01:26 AM
ItzOnlySydney   QUOTE(xSonia @ May 25 2005, 1:26 AM)Since her...   May 25 2005, 02:37 AM
TiNaBaBY074   well i'm 18 and have had 2 children and recent...   May 25 2005, 03:18 AM
toodlepops.   Does her parents know? It's better if they do....   May 25 2005, 03:32 AM
dani41790   Personally anything but abortion is ok. I really d...   May 25 2005, 03:53 AM
macb   oh man. 15 and already pregnant? You don't w...   May 25 2005, 04:10 AM
TiNaBaBY074   QUOTE(macb @ May 25 2005, 2:10 AM)If she has ...   May 25 2005, 02:46 PM
yanners   if she wants to keep it, then let her keep it. if...   May 25 2005, 08:36 AM
kill me please   i dont like getting into the whole thing over abor...   May 25 2005, 10:25 AM
gothicdork   I dunno...I'm against abortion...but to many p...   May 25 2005, 10:38 AM
ichigofan   Having a child is hard work at any age especially ...   May 25 2005, 03:16 PM
Shattered_Hope   Tell your friend the truth....that she's givin...   May 25 2005, 04:33 PM
mouse_3k   as harsh as it sounds, I suggest to just kill the ...   May 25 2005, 06:33 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   Maybe you should tell your friend that getting pre...   May 25 2005, 07:50 PM
tooeffingcrazy   IF her parents are willing to help her take care o...   May 25 2005, 08:00 PM
mocassinsx29   Honestly, I think she should sit down, think about...   May 25 2005, 10:04 PM
Kristinaa   abortion isn't right. You're killing someo...   May 25 2005, 11:05 PM
Frankie   QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ May 25 2...   May 26 2005, 12:04 AM
Skyline Drive   ADOPTION. ADOPTION. ADOPTION. Enough said.   May 25 2005, 11:08 PM
Kristinaa   QUOTEFrankie Posted May 26 2005, 12:04 AM um...t...   May 26 2005, 01:54 PM
ItzOnlySydney   QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ May 26 2...   May 26 2005, 02:32 PM
HoodieObsessed   That would be a difficult situation. ...very diff...   May 26 2005, 02:50 PM
lost [child]   If she truly doesnt want it, then put it up for ad...   May 26 2005, 02:53 PM
ItzOnlySydney   QUOTE(lost [child] @ May 26 2005, 2:...   May 26 2005, 04:44 PM
bby_cutie   i don't know alot but i don't really like ...   May 26 2005, 04:06 PM
x_signhere   well, i've just given birth. i'm 18 turnin...   May 27 2005, 10:14 AM
dragyn   I can only say what I would do. I would never wan...   May 27 2005, 03:11 PM


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