my friend is pregnant Options

[ItzOnlySydney]

ok so my friend heather is about a month or two pregnant. and she keeps asking me what to do and i don't know what to tell her. the father says he wants her to keep it but she just turned 15 and she is such a pretty and smart girl and she has her whole life ahead of her. gosh she keeps asking me for advice and idk what to tell her because i've never been pregnant before so basically it all boils down to one question :
abortion, adoption, or keep it?

this is her btw:

[tinababy143]

well i'm 18 and have had 2 children and recently had a miscarriage..

i am roman-catholic and i am against abortion

putting the child up for adoption is something that is hard to do..she will live everyday of her life thinking about the child and whether or not it is in a good home, no matter what the adoption agency says..even if she meets the parents who adopt her child, she'll still wonder..she will wonder where her child is, what he or she looks like, if he or she will have a good education, etc. Not only that, but the child will someday or another, wonder why he or she was put up for adoption, he or she will think that they did something wrong or otherwise. I know this because I did put one of my children up for adoption and I was an adopted child.

If she keeps the child, yeah, she'll miss out on a lot of things she would have done if she didnt have a child. Of course it will be hard, whoever thinks having a child is easy is downright crazy! But at the same time, it will be the best thing that has ever happened to her. She wont be able to picture her life without her child. She will feel like she is important ((whether she feels that way right now or not)). I cant even explain the feeling really..having a child is just...amazing!

No one can tell her what she should do. Only she knows what she wants. Of course she can get the opinions of others, but like i said, only she knows what she wants. She is the only one who knows what is best for her and her life. No one knows herself better than her. She needs time to herself to think about life, the father, her parents, etc. I hope everything works out. Keep me posted =D If you or her have any questions, feel free to ask me.