telling your bf/gf about things Options

[x shootingstar x]

Okay, so I got this topic off of another topic. 1.Do you think it's okay to tell someone else about what you do/did in your relationship with your bf/gf/ex-bg/ex-gf? (i.e. kissing, hugging, things you talk about, making out, things you do, etc.) I think it's a double standard.

2. Is it okay to tell your bf/gf about everything you've done with your ex?
-If you love your recent bf/gf very much and want to be honest with him/her, do you think it's okay to tell him/her everything? (i'm just going to say it from one gender's pov to make it less cumbersome.) If your gf asks you what did you do in your previous relationship, is it okay to tell her? It is also your ex's reputation and business. Is it okay to tell her all the things that your ex did with you and for you?

Consider this:
Gf: did she kiss you first or did you?
Bf: she did.

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Gf: how far did she go with you?
Bf: sex?
Gf: did she make the first move or did you?
Bf: she did.

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Is that consider appropriate? to tell your gf/bf about everything that had happened involving another girl?

3. If you recently kissed your gf. Is it okay to tell your friends about it?

Well, you get the point. there are many other questions that can be formed.. so lets make it an open topic. Anything related.

btw, haha im so repetitive. let me make sure i state this. do you think it's okay to tell your gf/bf about what you did with your ex. and also, do you think it's okay to tell your friends about what you've done with your gf/bf/ex?

[loljuliana]

well if your bf/gf is asking you about your ex; i guess it's okay to tell them because they ask for it.

if they really wanted to know what you've done; then i guess you should tell them. if they get upset; its their fault. they wanted to know in the first place.

in my point of view; if i kissed my bf; of course my friends would know about it. even if i didnt tell them; they'll have a way of finding out.