my friend is pregnant |
 May 24 2005, 07:26 AM
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ok so my friend heather is about a month or two pregnant. and she keeps asking me what to do and i don't know what to tell her. the father says he wants her to keep it but she just turned 15 and she is such a pretty and smart girl and she has her whole life ahead of her. gosh she keeps asking me for advice and idk what to tell her because i've never been pregnant before so basically it all boils down to one question :
abortion, adoption, or keep it? this is her btw: 
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May 24 2005, 12:02 PM
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She can have a very sucessful and happy life with a baby. I hate when people tell soon to be teenage mothers that their life is ruined because they have a baby on the way. While I dont support abortion at all, I do believe in a woman's right to choose. There is also the option of adoption that is less extreme. Utimately though you cant tell her what you think she should do because it her decision and I decision she alone with have to deal with for the rest of her life. You just need to be there to support in whatever decision she makes.
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May 24 2005, 03:56 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ May 24 2005, 12:02 PM) She can have a very sucessful and happy life with a baby. I hate when people tell soon to be teenage mothers that their life is ruined because they have a baby on the way. While I dont support abortion at all, I do believe in a woman's right to choose. There is also the option of adoption that is less extreme. Utimately though you cant tell her what you think she should do because it her decision and I decision she alone with have to deal with for the rest of her life. You just need to be there to support in whatever decision she makes.  no i'm not saying it will RUIN her life i'm saying it will take up A LOT of her time and she might miss out on the joys of being a teenager |
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| *mzkandi* |
May 24 2005, 06:17 PM
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QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ May 24 2005, 4:56 PM) no i'm not saying it will RUIN her life i'm saying it will take up A LOT of her time and she might miss out on the joys of being a teenager NO NO...I didnt mean to direct my statement at what you were saying, I know you didnt mean it that way. I am just saying that having a baby that young doesnt totally count you out of the joys of being a teenager. I know alot..and believe me ALOT....of girls that have had kids as young as 13,14, 15,16 and some who cant handle it give their babies up for adoption, while the other half have become better people from having a baby. Most of the fear about having a baby is usually wiped away after they give birth. But of course that is not the case for everyone. If she chooses to abort then that should be her decision alone and nobody should meddle in that decision. |
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ItzOnlySydney my friend is pregnant May 24 2005, 07:26 AM
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iSH_CHiPMUNKYYY_8D QUOTE(BBY_UNiQUE @ May 24 2005, 10:56 AM)my s... May 24 2005, 06:05 PM
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do yo... May 24 2005, 05:42 PM AngelicEyz00 It's not a baby it's a fetus. Think being ... May 24 2005, 05:46 PM xcaitlinx id get an abortion. mainly for the fact that id st... May 24 2005, 05:48 PM i heart john Um, guys, you forget that I was 13 when I was preg... May 24 2005, 05:51 PM beautifuls0ul_x3 QUOTE([f]eleeza @ May 24 2005, 4:51 ... May 25 2005, 01:13 AM dorischu QUOTE([f]eleeza @ May 25 2005, 7:51 ... May 27 2005, 10:02 AM snak3y3z1001 tell her to do what she feel is right May 24 2005, 05:54 PM mouse_3k thats her mistake tell her to deal with it. She sh... May 24 2005, 08:21 PM xSonia Since her father knows, keep it..oterwise ..my frd... May 25 2005, 01:26 AM ItzOnlySydney QUOTE(xSonia @ May 25 2005, 1:26 AM)Since her... May 25 2005, 02:37 AM TiNaBaBY074 well i'm 18 and have had 2 children and recent... May 25 2005, 03:18 AM toodlepops. Does her parents know? It's better if they do.... May 25 2005, 03:32 AM dani41790 Personally anything but abortion is ok. I really d... May 25 2005, 03:53 AM macb oh man. 15 and already pregnant?
You don't w... May 25 2005, 04:10 AM TiNaBaBY074 QUOTE(macb @ May 25 2005, 2:10 AM)If she has ... May 25 2005, 02:46 PM yanners if she wants to keep it, then let her keep it. if... May 25 2005, 08:36 AM kill me please i dont like getting into the whole thing over abor... May 25 2005, 10:25 AM gothicdork I dunno...I'm against abortion...but to many p... May 25 2005, 10:38 AM ichigofan Having a child is hard work at any age especially ... May 25 2005, 03:16 PM Shattered_Hope Tell your friend the truth....that she's givin... May 25 2005, 04:33 PM mouse_3k as harsh as it sounds, I suggest to just kill the ... May 25 2005, 06:33 PM xxaznxgurlxx Maybe you should tell your friend that getting pre... May 25 2005, 07:50 PM tooeffingcrazy IF her parents are willing to help her take care o... May 25 2005, 08:00 PM mocassinsx29 Honestly, I think she should sit down, think about... May 25 2005, 10:04 PM Kristinaa abortion isn't right. You're killing someo... May 25 2005, 11:05 PM Frankie QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ May 25 2... May 26 2005, 12:04 AM Skyline Drive ADOPTION.
ADOPTION.
ADOPTION.
Enough said. May 25 2005, 11:08 PM Kristinaa QUOTEFrankie Posted May 26 2005, 12:04 AM
um...t... May 26 2005, 01:54 PM ItzOnlySydney QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ May 26 2... May 26 2005, 02:32 PM HoodieObsessed That would be a difficult situation.
...very diff... May 26 2005, 02:50 PM lost [child] If she truly doesnt want it, then put it up for ad... May 26 2005, 02:53 PM ItzOnlySydney QUOTE(lost [child] @ May 26 2005, 2:... May 26 2005, 04:44 PM bby_cutie i don't know alot but i don't really like ... May 26 2005, 04:06 PM x_signhere well, i've just given birth. i'm 18 turnin... May 27 2005, 10:14 AM dragyn I can only say what I would do. I would never wan... May 27 2005, 03:11 PM |
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