my cousin is so..., help on this please? |
my cousin is so..., help on this please? |
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Well I've been having major family problems, well I'm not sure what it's called. You see I have these 3 cousins, and they're not the best of friends. Let me fill you in. I love the two out of the three of them: one is Teeda and the other one is Doosha, (yes their names are weird. but only because my nationality) they get along fine. It's my other cousin they dislike. Her name is Dana. Well Teeda just broke up with her boyfriend, and now Dana is secretly dating him. She told me and Doosha not to tell Teeda, she didn't even give us a chance to state our side about how we feel. And when we confronted her about it, she started yelling at us. The thing is, she's mad at us now she thinks that just because we have our own side of the situation we are going agaisnt her. We've tried talking to her about it and we never got to solve the problem. So the question is, should we just ignore her, talk it out with her, or just move on? Our friendship has been going on like a lightbulb. She sucks up to us and gets all the secrets out of us, and then she treats us like dirt. What to do?
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![]() jiyOunnn~ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 ![]() |
just talk to her about it and take the risk of you getting yelled at. i mean she really doesn't have the right to do that. and you know you have your own opinions and such. and i agree. ignoring peopel is really hard to do. especially if they're always there.you really gotta tell her what she's doing. let her be aware of it.
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