my cousin is so..., help on this please? Options

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Well I've been having major family problems, well I'm not sure what it's called. You see I have these 3 cousins, and they're not the best of friends. Let me fill you in. I love the two out of the three of them: one is Teeda and the other one is Doosha, (yes their names are weird. but only because my nationality) they get along fine. It's my other cousin they dislike. Her name is Dana. Well Teeda just broke up with her boyfriend, and now Dana is secretly dating him. She told me and Doosha not to tell Teeda, she didn't even give us a chance to state our side about how we feel. And when we confronted her about it, she started yelling at us. The thing is, she's mad at us now she thinks that just because we have our own side of the situation we are going agaisnt her. We've tried talking to her about it and we never got to solve the problem. So the question is, should we just ignore her, talk it out with her, or just move on? Our friendship has been going on like a lightbulb. She sucks up to us and gets all the secrets out of us, and then she treats us like dirt. What to do?

[dahding]

well, u have to take into consideration that she really does not want other people finding out about her relationship. so of course she's gonna be really defensive about anything you say. if you confront her about it, of course she's gonna explode and get all growly. i say, let her cool off for a while, and then try talking to her about it again. say how u don't disprove of her relationship/whatever and try to calm her down. and reassure her that ur not gonna like, tell her parents/something.

if that doesn't work and she's still all growly..

leave a trail of acorns to her mailbox. once a squirrel hops into the mailbox, shut it, and keep it shut. then when she goes to get her mail, it'll jump out all confused and angry, and it'll scratch out her eyes, and then cling to her face. she'll run around her lawn screaming, while u watch and sip a cup of coffee and say, "need some help there good ol' cousin? *sips*" then, she'll trip over a garden gnome and pass out.

the end.