A Dumped Friend Asked Back Out..???, I don't know lol |
A Dumped Friend Asked Back Out..???, I don't know lol |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,985 ![]() |
The beginning of this year I went out with a kid. We'll call him Steven. Now I liked Steven and I went out with him, but then rumors went around saying he liked someone else and I broke up with him. Now, months later after I broke up with him, when I asked him out the other day he said no.
1.) WHY MIGHT HE HAVE SAID NO? 2.) WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HIM SAY YES? Thanks so much for your help guys I LOVE YOU ALL!! ~Katie |
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 ![]() |
You should get over him.. I mean obviously he doesn't want to be with you. Maybe if you've given him a chance to tell HIS SIDE of the story about this whole "liking someone else" rumor back when you two were dating, it could've been where the rumor WAS a lie and you two would've never broken up. He probably said no because he thinks you don't trust him, OR he probably does like someone else. That, or maybe he might've stopped liking you a long time ago.
The best thing to do is move on. You don't want to be clingy, especially since YOU broke up with him about that rumor. What can you do to make him say yes? Well.... not much. I mean, you could tell him that you still have feelings for him and tell him sorry.. but tell me, were the rumors true? If not then.. tsk tsk tsk. I don't think he'll take you back so easily either way. ![]() |
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