You say u like me, but I don't feel that... Options

[rememberme]

I got a situation.

My g/f says that she likes me and all...

But the things she says/does doesn't back it up. (I'm not saying she puts me down or says negative things to me...)

But, when she talks, it sounds like she doesn't have that much interest in me...

And its like, I gotta ask her, where she is in this relationship.

WE talked about it before. And I asked...

"why do you like me?" And she responds with... "I like you hun..." (in like a cute childs voice...)

or when she does things throughout the day, she plains out just forgets about me. If she's not, I wish she could just mention that she misses me and what not. (we currently long distant, and I'll see her in a week or so...)

*Sighs. I gave time, and tried to adjust, and we talked about it before, but her end of communication is really not clear. (And we talked about that too already)


I was wondering, maybe the girls can tell me why shes acting like this? Or she just using me to fill time on her hands since she got nothing better to do... I dunno... I just want to feel like I wanted.. *Sighs...

[x shootingstar x]

okay.. there could be a lot of explanations. all girls aren't the same. we don't have the same rules or a certain way that we act.

she might be confused whether she likes you or not. she might like someone else and is trying to think through it clearly.

she might be shy.

maybe you're not showing her enough "love" that makes her feel secure to tell you.

etc etc.

maybe she just feels awdwark (sp) being around you. (if this is a recent relationship.)