You say u like me, but I don't feel that... Options

[rememberme]

I got a situation.

My g/f says that she likes me and all...

But the things she says/does doesn't back it up. (I'm not saying she puts me down or says negative things to me...)

But, when she talks, it sounds like she doesn't have that much interest in me...

And its like, I gotta ask her, where she is in this relationship.

WE talked about it before. And I asked...

"why do you like me?" And she responds with... "I like you hun..." (in like a cute childs voice...)

or when she does things throughout the day, she plains out just forgets about me. If she's not, I wish she could just mention that she misses me and what not. (we currently long distant, and I'll see her in a week or so...)

*Sighs. I gave time, and tried to adjust, and we talked about it before, but her end of communication is really not clear. (And we talked about that too already)


I was wondering, maybe the girls can tell me why shes acting like this? Or she just using me to fill time on her hands since she got nothing better to do... I dunno... I just want to feel like I wanted.. *Sighs...

[Shattered_Hope]

From what you've just said.....I don't think your girlfriend is that interested in you...but..if you want to be positive about this....then I guess...you could look at it as her having too much time or are too busy...either way...it says one thing: she doesn't have time for you or doesn't bother to make time. This is the point where you decide if you want to make a long distance relationship to someone who is not willing to commit themselves that much...or at least...as much as you. Talk to her again and be blunt about it...and if she still doesn't change...then just...move on and forget about her...and yes....I do think that she is being like this because she is using you to fill time on her hands....