Ways To Get Over Him?, Please Help! Options

[malimars]

Sorry if there was other topics about this but I have never seen any,I really like this guy but he's in love with some other girl and we would be nothing more then friends so yeah Im just wondering whats your idea's about it!Like its not as easy for me as most girls for the fact that he is at my house everyday all day,So basically I always have to see him and I live here so theres no since of always going out I usually am always out but when were not together were always texting so theres like no difference and I stopped texting and talking to him for reasons and I dont know its just not helping!Anyone please Help!

[CrazayChristian]

Let me lead you by experiance,

I wanted to get over someone (and currently still havn't) and I always heard to push them out and forget about them. So, I stoped talking to them and they did nothing to keep talking to me... I cut almost all communication and they were indiffrent. I'm not saying it wouldn't work, I'm just saying it put me in one of the worst Situations I had ever been in and well... I risked our friendship.

On the other hand, time can be a helper. Most of the time guys don't just jump into relationships with someone, it takes warming up. If you flirt with him a bit, then usually the little attraction switch begins to toggle.

And saying "I Love you" loses it's meaning after a while. I mean now I hear "Love" right and left between friends and you no longer can tell when people mean it anymore. When he said "I said it to make you happy" That's usually a hit towards "I said it because I care about you and I might actually mean it" On the other hand, guys will do certain things to entertain a girl. Depends on how he is.

All I can say is even though a relationship may rock, friendships rock longer.(I don't care if it's cheesy I had to learn the hard way)

-Joshua