should i tell her? |
 May 14 2005, 01:04 PM
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hey you guys.
needless to say.. I'm new at this. so if this topic is old, I'm very sorry but I just really need advice!  ok well.. there is this boy Carlos.  I really like him and everything. He's such a sweetie and he's so adorable! He asked me out yesterday.. but there is one problem.. My Mom! Im not allowed to have a boyfriend! Yes i know.. we're in the year 2005! But My mom is more of an old-fashioned hispanic mother who over-protects her children and has very strict rules! Don't get me wrong. Its my mom and everything.. but I really like Carlos! I have asked her before if I could have a boyfriend.. but she starts to lecture me and say "NO!" Should I talk to her about it.. or just do it behind her back? Her trust is really important to me, but i dont think she would ever understand!  Like i said... I really really like him! I would really appreciate any advice or comments or if anyone has had a similar problem.. what did you do? 
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May 20 2005, 09:28 PM
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tell her, I'm also "not suppose to date" but when my mother found out I was lying about having a boyfriend she was more upset about the lying then the guy- now she doesn't really care if I have a boyfriend, as long as I don't lie
so yeah, the truths better, though it may be rocky at first...she'll get over it... |
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Chyn020 should i tell her? May 14 2005, 01:04 PM
angel_revelation i think it would be best to respect your mom's... May 14 2005, 01:53 PM Just_Dream First off, there are still plenty of over-protecti... May 14 2005, 04:07 PM Kounouri i agree .. try telling your mom that you like a bo... May 14 2005, 04:13 PM
sk8ter4life750 QUOTE(Kounouri @ May 14 2005, 5:13 PM)i agree... May 14 2005, 08:08 PM aera my parents are over-protective too... but a lot of... May 14 2005, 04:18 PM helenxxx I would keep it from my mom. Apparently me and my ... May 14 2005, 04:21 PM Chyn020 omg! thank you guys so much! im still not ... May 14 2005, 04:55 PM pinayprincess i would do it behind her baCK.... my mom is the sa... May 14 2005, 06:28 PM iNyCxShoRT What she doesnt know can't hurt her p_p;; May 14 2005, 07:32 PM Shattered_Hope If you don't feel comfortable going behind you... May 15 2005, 10:03 PM SimplicityGirl Well...if you feel comfortable dating behind your ... May 15 2005, 10:34 PM babycarrot hmm. question! how old are ya? May 16 2005, 03:27 AM Chyn020 QUOTE(babycarrot @ May 16 2005, 3:27 AM)hmm. ... May 16 2005, 08:46 PM x3__iGiVEup well, in my opinion, you could go behind her back.... May 16 2005, 08:19 PM Shortiiex just have fun with him....she has to RESPECT YOUR ... May 17 2005, 09:45 PM jiaho93 OMG, I have the exact same problem!! Bleg... May 17 2005, 10:03 PM xlaydee_v lols. how old are you? i mean.. why shouldn't ... May 17 2005, 10:03 PM tmauze don't risk getting into trouble with your mom.... May 17 2005, 10:49 PM separatewings I honestly, would go behind my parent's back. ... May 17 2005, 11:50 PM enyceXaddiction GO OUT WITH HIM. i do my parents had told me a TRI... May 18 2005, 06:28 PM Chyn020 QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ May 18 2005, 6:28 PM)... May 20 2005, 06:17 PM nothingless keep it secret. always fun. May 21 2005, 10:26 AM |
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