Can you help?, unsure. Options

[x3chrissyx3]

Okay, so Brett* my boyfriend and I hav been together for a good amount of time. I love him with everything I have, and he says he loves me. This past summer, he started to act more like an a-hole than ever. He used to call, and he'd tell me about this girl he thinks is hot, and how he likes her. I dont know...but that got me pretty badly. Then, it started with the phone calls just to tell me goodbye, and he's walking out the door and I wouldnt hear from him in 3 weeks. In October, i found out about this girl who he'd been seeing more of, and he slept at her house, etc. Now, he started to blow me off for her....but still in all, I tried not to love him, even though I wanted him sooo badly. Meanwhile, we broke up for a month, and then he came crawling back. And since then...one day it's like "I love you" then the next day "we dont belong together" and then back to "I love you."

-So here I am, hurt and confused. We've been together for 2 years, and I would hate to break up over this. I've gotten no explanations for the way he's acting...except for the girl thing which he told me he was "kidding" - but obviously it's bullshit if it went on everyday for like, a half hour. I have ppl tellin me to stay with him, most importantly myself, and then people saying to dump him, which I want to do...I think?

I really need more opinions.

Thanks!

[aj637]

only you can make a decision like that. its kinda like the music video thats called "my baby" by bow wow. if you seen it, then regard what i am saying. i mean the video was about the girl mentally and emotionally getting hurt by her boyfriend and someone came and showed her how love is suppose to be and she had the decsion to pick her xboy or bow wow and theres a split screen. in one she goes with her x and she ends up dying becuase they were fighting in the car and it was raining and if she goes to bow wow she lived a happy life. pretty much if you cant take the BS of your ex regardless of how long you have been then move on because theres no point in trying to fix someone who obviously does things behind your back. i mean the heart does play game but the mind doesnt. so think really hard whether you want to be the man or not. i mean do you see yourself with him in the future as in having kids with him and sharing a life? if you do then continue to love him and hopefully he'll learn to wise up and if you dont then i think you have already made up your mind.