i hate my father so much Options

[pingpang_0811]

i know i shouldn't hate him, coz he's my father.
but he really makes me so upset. recently, i told him that i want to learn dancing. he refuse me and said don't waste money on those rubbish thing!!
i was very angry! i mean, you can't say dance is rubbish! i love dance so much, i love it for a long time already.
in those years, i only learned jazz and hip-hop for few months only. the fees was paid by my own saved money. coz he always doesn't support. he always said i shouldn't anything which is useless. everytime i watched music video, i'm so jealous. i admire their skills of dancing. i know they need time to practise, and i don't mind spending time on practising dancing!
so i decide to use my saved money again on paying fee. sigh.......... i can't spend money on dance but he can spend money on gambling!!! fuXk!

[Just_Dream]

Bleh idk... He just doesn't see eye to eye about how you feel about things. I hate my father as well, but my father is far worse than yours.

My father doesn't even allow me to go out, not even to events that are also free! Dumb, huh? lol. And he doesn't even want me going out to hang out with my friends, even if it's for school. Since he's rarely home (also because of his infidelity... ), I'm able to go out and stuff because my mom allows me. She's more lenient.

But anyway, you should still pursue your dreams... You should realize that there are probably people who are far worse off than you, and at least you can save money to achieve your dreams. There's people out there who are working at a young age just to survive and hope that they could become dancers as well. Be independent. That way, when you save you save up enough money and do take those classes, you'll have a chance at becoming a professional dancer. And when you make it big, you can look back and tell your father that he was wrong, that it would've been nice that he could've supported you in following your dreams.