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i hate my father so much
pingpang_0811
post May 17 2005, 08:01 AM
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i know i shouldn't hate him, coz he's my father.
but he really makes me so upset. recently, i told him that i want to learn dancing. he refuse me and said don't waste money on those rubbish thing!!
i was very angry! i mean, you can't say dance is rubbish! i love dance so much, i love it for a long time already.
in those years, i only learned jazz and hip-hop for few months only. the fees was paid by my own saved money. coz he always doesn't support. he always said i shouldn't anything which is useless. everytime i watched music video, i'm so jealous. i admire their skills of dancing. i know they need time to practise, and i don't mind spending time on practising dancing!
so i decide to use my saved money again on paying fee. sigh.......... i can't spend money on dance but he can spend money on gambling!!! fuXk!
 
 
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Just_Dream
post May 18 2005, 09:54 PM
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Bleh idk... He just doesn't see eye to eye about how you feel about things. I hate my father as well, but my father is far worse than yours.

My father doesn't even allow me to go out, not even to events that are also free! Dumb, huh? lol. And he doesn't even want me going out to hang out with my friends, even if it's for school. Since he's rarely home (also because of his infidelity... mad.gif ), I'm able to go out and stuff because my mom allows me. She's more lenient.

But anyway, you should still pursue your dreams... You should realize that there are probably people who are far worse off than you, and at least you can save money to achieve your dreams. There's people out there who are working at a young age just to survive and hope that they could become dancers as well. Be independent. That way, when you save you save up enough money and do take those classes, you'll have a chance at becoming a professional dancer. And when you make it big, you can look back and tell your father that he was wrong, that it would've been nice that he could've supported you in following your dreams.
 

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pingpang_0811   i hate my father so much   May 17 2005, 08:01 AM
toodlepops.   Just have a long chat with him. Whatever you do, c...   May 17 2005, 08:55 AM
angel_revelation   maybe like offer to do chores, work, anything, he...   May 17 2005, 11:06 AM
taintedtrash   lol, techinically you dont NEED to purchase dancin...   May 17 2005, 02:18 PM
krnxswat   I think, and I'm sure your father would concur...   May 17 2005, 02:45 PM
tungtwista   this is how teens feel al the time. it'll go a...   May 17 2005, 02:57 PM
Shattered_Hope   I'm sorry to say that your rant was nearly use...   May 17 2005, 06:02 PM
sm0kinm0nky   You should be happy to still have a father. Our p...   May 17 2005, 06:04 PM
ikn0w ur m0m   in a few weeks u wont wanan do dance.   May 17 2005, 06:58 PM
_sarcastic_   well at least he's not stopping you from payin...   May 17 2005, 07:53 PM
suddenly she   do you really need dance lessons? i know a guy (ye...   May 17 2005, 09:06 PM
pingpang_0811   to krnxswat, from your opinion, i'm sure that ...   May 18 2005, 07:04 AM
Im So Vain   Thats not a good reason to be mad at your father. ...   May 17 2005, 09:15 PM
suddenly she   maybe. it was kinda weird though, because you don...   May 18 2005, 05:24 PM
enyceXaddiction   that is messed up. have a talk with him or go to y...   May 18 2005, 06:20 PM
iNyCxShoRT   Blah, my dad does that too. He think that it's...   May 18 2005, 06:55 PM
suddenly she   QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ May 18 2005, 7:55 PM)Blah,...   May 18 2005, 09:41 PM
yukichan   just talk to him and explain, how it would be good...   May 18 2005, 09:53 PM
Just_Dream   Bleh idk... He just doesn't see eye to eye abo...   May 18 2005, 09:54 PM
HoodieObsessed   wow, that's horrible...th'ats so mean... ...   May 18 2005, 10:39 PM
pingpang_0811   my family income is satisfactory. and he disallows...   May 19 2005, 06:58 AM
chaneun   Maybe the fact you pay for it is good for you. Ma...   May 20 2005, 05:24 PM


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