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should i tell her?
Chyn020
post May 14 2005, 01:04 PM
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hey you guys.
needless to say.. I'm new at this. so if this topic is old, I'm very sorry but I just really need advice! _unsure.gif

ok well.. there is this boy Carlos. wub.gif I really like him and everything. He's such a sweetie and he's so adorable! He asked me out yesterday.. but there is one problem.. My Mom! Im not allowed to have a boyfriend! Yes i know.. we're in the year 2005! But My mom is more of an old-fashioned hispanic mother who over-protects her children and has very strict rules!
Don't get me wrong. Its my mom and everything.. but I really like Carlos!
I have asked her before if I could have a boyfriend.. but she starts to lecture me and say "NO!"

Should I talk to her about it.. or just do it behind her back? Her trust is really important to me, but i dont think she would ever understand! cry.gif
Like i said... I really really like him!

I would really appreciate any advice or comments or if anyone has had a similar problem.. what did you do? _smile.gif
 
 
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jiaho93
post May 17 2005, 10:03 PM
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OMG, I have the exact same problem!! Blegh. It's tough. I'm currently in a relationship that I've "hid" for nearly two years... I try to hide it, but my mom seems to know everything. She has mother radar or something and she always knows when I lie. But I'm still alive... despite her countless suspicions... she even told me outright to stop the relationship last summer. I genuinely attempted to obey her but ended up staying away from the guy for only two days. >,< That didn't go very far.
 

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Chyn020   should i tell her?   May 14 2005, 01:04 PM
angel_revelation   i think it would be best to respect your mom's...   May 14 2005, 01:53 PM
Just_Dream   First off, there are still plenty of over-protecti...   May 14 2005, 04:07 PM
Kounouri   i agree .. try telling your mom that you like a bo...   May 14 2005, 04:13 PM
sk8ter4life750   QUOTE(Kounouri @ May 14 2005, 5:13 PM)i agree...   May 14 2005, 08:08 PM
aera   my parents are over-protective too... but a lot of...   May 14 2005, 04:18 PM
helenxxx   I would keep it from my mom. Apparently me and my ...   May 14 2005, 04:21 PM
Chyn020   omg! thank you guys so much! im still not ...   May 14 2005, 04:55 PM
pinayprincess   i would do it behind her baCK.... my mom is the sa...   May 14 2005, 06:28 PM
iNyCxShoRT   What she doesnt know can't hurt her p_p;;   May 14 2005, 07:32 PM
Shattered_Hope   If you don't feel comfortable going behind you...   May 15 2005, 10:03 PM
SimplicityGirl   Well...if you feel comfortable dating behind your ...   May 15 2005, 10:34 PM
babycarrot   hmm. question! how old are ya?   May 16 2005, 03:27 AM
Chyn020   QUOTE(babycarrot @ May 16 2005, 3:27 AM)hmm. ...   May 16 2005, 08:46 PM
x3__iGiVEup   well, in my opinion, you could go behind her back....   May 16 2005, 08:19 PM
Shortiiex   just have fun with him....she has to RESPECT YOUR ...   May 17 2005, 09:45 PM
jiaho93   OMG, I have the exact same problem!! Bleg...   May 17 2005, 10:03 PM
xlaydee_v   lols. how old are you? i mean.. why shouldn't ...   May 17 2005, 10:03 PM
tmauze   don't risk getting into trouble with your mom....   May 17 2005, 10:49 PM
separatewings   I honestly, would go behind my parent's back. ...   May 17 2005, 11:50 PM
enyceXaddiction   GO OUT WITH HIM. i do my parents had told me a TRI...   May 18 2005, 06:28 PM
Chyn020   QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ May 18 2005, 6:28 PM)...   May 20 2005, 06:17 PM
secrets-out   tell her, I'm also "not suppose to date...   May 20 2005, 09:28 PM
nothingless   keep it secret. always fun.   May 21 2005, 10:26 AM


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