confused, about this boy Options

[loljuliana]

props to whoever reads it all

well i've been going out with this boy for about 3½ months. things were okay during the first month or so, but he sometimes seemed to choose basketball over me. he would sometimes break plans just so he could play basketball with a few of his friends. i talked to him about it and i guess he started to stop doing that and hang out with me more. things were going fine until things started, i dunno, i guess changing? he started getting irratating sometimes. for example, he would ask me where i was going. i would say that i didnt know. and 2 seconds later, he would go "where you going" and once again i would reply "i dont know." then he would continue to repeat the question. and sometimes he would be mean to my friends. sometimes in the morning, i would go up to him with a few of my friends, and he would be in his own group of friends, and i would just be standing there waiting for him to notice me there. but he would just look at me, and then turn back to his friends acting like he never saw me. and sometimes whenever i talk to him, i get grouchy everytime i talked to him. i would be giving him an attitude and all that. then i would apologize and everything would be back to normal. and then the next day, whenever i get online and am about to talk to him, he goes "im going to go outside". he does it basically almost everytime we dont see each other for that day and almost right after i get online.

what i'm trying to ask is. .should i break up with him? or should i just wait to see how things turn out? i tried talking to him about it countless times but things would just go back to the way they used to be. nothing ever changes really whenever we talk about something. the only thing that he really changed was the situation about basketball. so if you were me, what would you do? leave or wait?

[NgocQuyen]

lols...grrr i hate it when guys try to act hard in front of their friends!!! its so freaking annoying!! lols...if you cant talk to him about all the stuff that's going on in your mind then why are you with him? if he's no trying to make it work...then...why should you? arent there more men out there that you could be trying to holler at...dont devote yourself to one guy..exspecially some guy that (according to you) gets on your nerves or makes you act differently(your attitude, etc.) if he really wanted to make it work...dont you think he would have had that conversation that you was wanting to have about this situation? lols...i mean sometimes its hard to come into realization...but you have to one day....but that's only what i would do...because i've done so...recently...and things are going great....we're better as friends...lols...so maybe you guys could just be friends...hehehe....all things happen for a reason...nothing is a mistake...things happen...hehehe...=] good luck buddy!