confused, about this boy Options

[loljuliana]

props to whoever reads it all

well i've been going out with this boy for about 3½ months. things were okay during the first month or so, but he sometimes seemed to choose basketball over me. he would sometimes break plans just so he could play basketball with a few of his friends. i talked to him about it and i guess he started to stop doing that and hang out with me more. things were going fine until things started, i dunno, i guess changing? he started getting irratating sometimes. for example, he would ask me where i was going. i would say that i didnt know. and 2 seconds later, he would go "where you going" and once again i would reply "i dont know." then he would continue to repeat the question. and sometimes he would be mean to my friends. sometimes in the morning, i would go up to him with a few of my friends, and he would be in his own group of friends, and i would just be standing there waiting for him to notice me there. but he would just look at me, and then turn back to his friends acting like he never saw me. and sometimes whenever i talk to him, i get grouchy everytime i talked to him. i would be giving him an attitude and all that. then i would apologize and everything would be back to normal. and then the next day, whenever i get online and am about to talk to him, he goes "im going to go outside". he does it basically almost everytime we dont see each other for that day and almost right after i get online.

what i'm trying to ask is. .should i break up with him? or should i just wait to see how things turn out? i tried talking to him about it countless times but things would just go back to the way they used to be. nothing ever changes really whenever we talk about something. the only thing that he really changed was the situation about basketball. so if you were me, what would you do? leave or wait?

[yuna*]

erm..why did you answered him with "i don't know" when he asked where were you going? you don't know where are you going off to? o.O

^oh and..I think he was trying to act cool infront of his friends...like most guys do that..

[loljuliana]

erm..why did you answered him with "i don't know" when he asked where were you going? you don't know where are you going off to? o.O

^oh and..I think he was trying to act cool infront of his friends...like most guys do that..

i said that because we were just walking down the street, and it was after school. we didnt really have any plans of where to go yet. so i just said i dont know.

time to leave him. from the moment he "chose basketball over you", that should've been clue #1 to get out. a bf should devot most of his time to you (mind you he does have a life outside the relationship!), and he should want to be with YOU and not his friends. it sounds like HE'S the one not ready for a real relationship. he's prolly too immature and hasn't grown up yet. i say let him go off, u're soo much better without him and with someone who will cherish you the way a bf should.

i was thinking about that, and i dont want to do something that i would regret. because out of all my relationships, he was really the best boyfriend i've ever had. sometimes he's really sweet and all that, but there's just these times where. .the things he does; just upsets me. i'm scared that if i break up with him, i'm going to regret it.