confused, about this boy Options

[loljuliana]

props to whoever reads it all

well i've been going out with this boy for about 3½ months. things were okay during the first month or so, but he sometimes seemed to choose basketball over me. he would sometimes break plans just so he could play basketball with a few of his friends. i talked to him about it and i guess he started to stop doing that and hang out with me more. things were going fine until things started, i dunno, i guess changing? he started getting irratating sometimes. for example, he would ask me where i was going. i would say that i didnt know. and 2 seconds later, he would go "where you going" and once again i would reply "i dont know." then he would continue to repeat the question. and sometimes he would be mean to my friends. sometimes in the morning, i would go up to him with a few of my friends, and he would be in his own group of friends, and i would just be standing there waiting for him to notice me there. but he would just look at me, and then turn back to his friends acting like he never saw me. and sometimes whenever i talk to him, i get grouchy everytime i talked to him. i would be giving him an attitude and all that. then i would apologize and everything would be back to normal. and then the next day, whenever i get online and am about to talk to him, he goes "im going to go outside". he does it basically almost everytime we dont see each other for that day and almost right after i get online.

what i'm trying to ask is. .should i break up with him? or should i just wait to see how things turn out? i tried talking to him about it countless times but things would just go back to the way they used to be. nothing ever changes really whenever we talk about something. the only thing that he really changed was the situation about basketball. so if you were me, what would you do? leave or wait?

[iixSOOJINx]

no juliana. you've been through so much cuz of this fool. lols. i say don't just do those regular online talks you've been doing with him or even your real life talks with him. talk to him for like.. a LONG time, tell him everything thats on your mind; try to give him some ideas of how to change..

i know you might think that you already did that, but this time, do it for real and if he doesnt say anything, don't just walk away and go to a friend and say, he's not talking, forget it..

go to him and say, "why aren't you saying anything back? why don't you say something? not to be roud or anything but i'm sort of tired of waiting all the time for a reply yet you never give one back. Just tell me what's on your mind or something. Say something." and if he still doesn't answer... give up hope.

that will just mean that he's thinking or he doesn't want to answer, or he doesn't know how to answer to that.
Then, just go like, "forget it then since you dont want to answer. just get my point."

then, way another day and see how he acts the next day or 2. If he hasn't changed...

i guess my cool friend, you just have to let him go. ;[