Upper lip hair..., Just read it...please. Options

[O x LiseE x O]

Okay, I know there are other topics on this, but this is a more of a "How do I get my mom to understand my issue?" Today I told her three things I would change about myself is, eyebrows [arched], upper lip hair, and weight. And she was like maybe. And I told her "NO I "AM" changing that. And she's like not if I don't know abotu it. But she doesn't get it, I am going to do it...I don't care if I get grounded, I'm doing it. She says I shouldn't because it'll get thicker, but there was a thread here saying that the "Nair Upper Lip Hair" doesn't make it thicker... just gets rid of it... and I am bound to try it... but she won't let me, she just doesn't understand... what would you do?

[Spirited Away]

Unless you're going to pull the hair from its roots, it'll ALWAYS come back darker, thicker. Shaving for example, doesn't get rid of the root of the hair, so it'll come back thicker. Certain cream removals will only do so much as get rid of the hair a little past the surface of your skin and they will not pull out the roots. That means, such creams will result in hair growing back coarser.

So, either pluck with tweezers or wax. Your hair will take longer to grow back and it will not be so thick and dark as you would shaving/using cream removal.

You must be careful about your eyebrows. You can either improve in appearance or worsen by changing your eyebrows as they play an important role in defining your face. I suggest that you go to a professional and let them help you find the right shape of your eyebrows. DO NOT rush and pluck them on your own until you know their shape. I've seen too many young girls do this and I'm telling you that you can save yourself from embarrassment.