Friendship Trouble |
 May 13 2005, 07:39 PM
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I'm having some problems with my friendship. Please help me out. Me and "Michelle" have known each other since the 2nd grade. So that's like 8 years right there. When we went into high school last year, we met a girl named Kayla and Katie. Kayla and Katie were friends just like me and Michelle. Let's just say that none of us are friends with Katie anymore. So since then Kayla started hanging out with me and Michelle. Lately they've been hanging out alot. They go out like every weekend. And I haven't gotten invited. Like for example Kayla asked me if I wanted to see House of Wax and I said yeah. And then like the next week she's talking about her and Michelle saw it. And they didn't invite me! I wouldn't have minded if this happened just a few times but it's been happening alot and it's getting me really upset. And Kayla was talking about going to Hawaii this summer. And well I put the pieces of the puzzle together and I found out Michelle is also going! Michelle is one of my best friends and I feel like I'm losing her. I know as you get older your friendship with people starts to dissintergrate but I don't want to lose her. What should I do about this situation?
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May 14 2005, 03:55 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Mmm yea talk to her about it. If Michelle's that great a friend, she should at least invite you along. If Michelle doesn't realize what she's doing and starts blowing you off more, then perhaps it's time to move on. Just have her as a regular friend... I mean people eventually grow apart, that is true. There will be plenty of people walking in and out of your life--only the truest ones will remain forever by your side, as you would for them.
As for Kayla... Maybe she wants to steal Michelle away from you. What you must understand is that when people have best friends or childhood friends and end up losing them, they try to find another, as quickly as possible. It's kind of like.. when two people are in a relationship and once they break up, they're on the rebound... Does that make any sense? Tell them both how you feel and if they still exclude you, then you should move on and find other friends to hang out with. |
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AnonymousGirl589 Friendship Trouble May 13 2005, 07:39 PM
--x who0ps uhmm.. well.. if she really was your best friend, ... May 13 2005, 08:16 PM pinayprincess talk to her... the same thing happened to me, i wa... May 13 2005, 10:03 PM _sarcastic_ talk to her, tell her what's going on. if you ... May 14 2005, 09:50 AM clarissa dude. i have the same exact problem. my friend sin... May 14 2005, 10:46 AM aera tell her how you feel. its kind of the same with m... May 14 2005, 04:27 PM dancingkait i had the exact same thing happen to me too. i was... May 14 2005, 05:00 PM Shattered_Hope The only way you're going to be able to solve ... May 15 2005, 08:20 PM
AnonymousGirl589 Thanks guys. I'll talk to Michelle about it. I... May 15 2005, 09:17 PM |
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