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[whatiismae]

okay, here's the problem. so basically, i have this friend brittany who gave my sn to this guy she knows from her old school. and he and i talked online for a like 30 min before he asked for my number. so, i gave it to him. and he called me that night at around 11, and we ended up talking until 2 in the morning. i mean, he seems cool and fun, i guess. the thing is, i talked to brittany and all the people who went to his old school, and they all say he's kind of creepy. brittany gave him my sn but she didnt think it would lead to this. she just thought we'd talk for a little bit and then she and i could laugh about it later. i've never met him, and he's asked me to go to the movies with him. everybody thinks he's weird. they said they found some old notebooks of his that are full of drawings on how to take over the world. he said he's completely changed since then (which was around 6th grade and i'm a freshman now), but i'm still a little iffy. he told me he's a complete wigger and wears ecko and all of that. it's just a little strange.. because he'll be my first boyfriend IF it even gets that far. and when we were on the phone, he said stuff like, oh wow i need a girlfriend. and he just kept dropping hints like that, and it was just really messed up. i dont know what to do!! i dont want to like hurt him or anything because he's already told me how he was really hurt when he got rejected massively by one of his good girl friends in like 6th grade. he seems nice, but now i hear all this stuff about how messed up he was before. so if i do go to the movies with him sometime, i'd bring my friends and tell him to bring his, so its not weird. but i dont know if i even want to go to the movies with him, because it'd be awkward since i know all this stuff about him that he doesnt know that i know. and, i'm just stumped on if i should give this a try or not. all my friends who know him are teasing me about him because they know how weird he is!! HELP!
btw, he's not hot.. at all. from what i hear. i mean, obviously that shouldn't have anything to do with it, but.. it would just tip in his favor if he was.
anyway PLEASE HELP ME!!

[Shattered_Hope]

You don't base your decision on what others say...since he called you and you two talked till 2 a.m. I'll assume you two have a lot in common or just enjoy talking to each other. Besides, the things that they tell you about him are things from 3 years back...in middle school....and if he says he's changed....I think you should believe him....and just take a chance...meet up with him and just decide when you do meet him...if this is the guy you want to be in a relationship with...