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krismiss678
post May 8 2005, 07:54 PM
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So I decided i really like this guy the other day and i wanted some of your advice on the situation, so here goes nothing:

I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend of like 5 or six months. No one really likes her...but i dont know, shes kinda bitchy. Hes a senior and hes leaving for college in the fall. So I met him a week ago and then two days ago i saw him at this school event and he was like all over me like looking at my chest and feeling my back and stuff and we were flirting. now everytime i see him, i just like get this tingly feeling like i want him soo bad but i cant have him and it makes me mad that my competition is her .. so i dont know what to do because i know if i was dating someone i would be pissed if someone broke me and my bf up, but at the same time, i like dont care what she has to say.. i think i could get him with enough flirting because he seemed to be into me, but ive heard he does that a lot s o i dont know. i just want a summer fling because its been a year since my last bf and im like in withdrawl right now. Im like 16 and haven made ot or anything either. ive waited long enough....

thanks for any advice you can give me. =]



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yea i know i wouldnt either and

IM SORRY I CRITICIZED HIS GIRLFRIEND...for the last time...i know i shouldnt have

im just jealous and ill admit that...i just dont know how to get over him. ive been crying all night and i couldnt talk to many people at school today because i cant stop thinking about him...im just so upset. i shouldnt have persued any of this...

gosh...im so upset right now. any advice?
 
 
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everclearshorty
post May 12 2005, 08:02 PM
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the way i see it is you are only 16 and trust me there will be plenty of guys out there. 16 is an awkward age, u may feel that you are unlikable or stupid or whatever but that comes with the age....

i wouldnt go after someone with a g/f, bc if you do break them up then youll be named a slut, or whore, or whatever it is that people are saying now.

if he likes you then he would break up with her anyway and if not you should let them be happy together, whether you like her or not for whatever reason. it isnt your decision to decide who he is with, thats just who he wants. maybe later that will change.

if all you want is a fling then you could find plenty of willing guys, especially at 16 thats all they want too ,is a fling.
 

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krismiss678   I have a problem   May 8 2005, 07:54 PM
iNyCxShoRT   Eh, I know how you feel I'm kinda going throug...   May 8 2005, 08:22 PM
aznhunnie6o1   Well.. I think you should just wait till he breaks...   May 8 2005, 08:28 PM
FoOd   Oh my, you seem very shallow my dear. Just bec...   May 8 2005, 08:30 PM
_sarcastic_   just because she's supposedly ugly so you don...   May 8 2005, 08:30 PM
Angel_Cece   uhh, tell him to stop looking at you if he has a g...   May 8 2005, 08:30 PM
TiNaBaBY074   i think you should tell him you like him and tell ...   May 8 2005, 08:38 PM
krismiss678   wow guys chill. im not saying i dont care about he...   May 8 2005, 08:39 PM
aera   if he flirts all the time and all that other stuff...   May 8 2005, 08:49 PM
krismiss678   i know that it does. im sorry guys i shouldnt have...   May 8 2005, 09:43 PM
x LUV x ALWAYS x   are you shallow or something? maybe he doesn't...   May 8 2005, 11:10 PM
krismiss678   yea i know i wouldnt either and IM SORRY I CRITIC...   May 10 2005, 09:15 PM
krismiss678   QUOTE(krismiss678 @ May 10 2005, 9:15 PM)yea ...   May 14 2005, 11:16 PM
Shattered_Hope   Umm......there really is nothing that you should d...   May 12 2005, 06:44 PM
cutelilmonkie930   i agree wit angel cece...hes not worth it...if its...   May 12 2005, 06:47 PM
everclearshorty   the way i see it is you are only 16 and trust me t...   May 12 2005, 08:02 PM
WrathOfOnigo   Ok here, BACK OFF!! He's obviously a p...   May 12 2005, 09:38 PM
pinayprincess   QUOTE(WrathOfOnigo @ May 12 2005, 9:38 PM)Ok ...   May 13 2005, 10:13 PM
crrazzzyyy1991   I would get over him. I mean he has a girlfriend, ...   May 15 2005, 04:08 PM
x shootingstar x   sigh* if ppl were easier to deal with. first of ...   May 22 2005, 03:40 PM
enyceXaddiction   ehhh just get over him. cause would you like it if...   May 22 2005, 04:14 PM


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