I just dont see him as the boyfriend type, Question Gals Options

[AngryBaby]

my friend Zach in one of my classes likes my other friend Ashley. Zachs was cool with her and all, gets to know her, they become friends and even start flirting.(at least i thought so) later in the year Zach finally gets the strength up to ask her out. But when he asks her out, she rejects him! she gave the lets be just friends thing. so they're still just friends now. I asked Ash' why'd she rejected him. She's all like "I cant really see him as the Boyfriend type ya know? i can only see him as a friend, and thats about as far as its gonna go."
So i just said "oh, i get what you mean" i kinda do, but a few questions.

The questions are
what did the person do wrong that he would be only considered as a friend?
What is the difference between the guy that would be the Bf and the bff, that the Bf would get the girl over the person who knows her better, and they have a better time with ?(lol did that make sense?)
those were Zachs' questions heres my question

If i were to meet a girl right now for the first time and i started liking her, what would be the things i would do that would lead me down the path of "lets just be friends" oppossed to the boyfriend path. and what would be the the things i would do to get to the path of Boyfriend opossed to just friend.
because if it were me id want the best of both worlds a Gf and a bff.

Oh god im done i hope that made sense, cuz my damn fingers hurt now.
i would type more but i wouldnt do that to ya.

[iheartsimba]

what did the person do wrong that he would be only considered as a friend?
Well this guy at my school likes me..and he's a really nice guy. Funny, nice to talk to and all. He's the star of the fricking football team! And I wouldn't go out with him. Because I just can't imagine romance. We are friends, and sometimes you just can't see anything beyond that with certain people.


What is the difference between the guy that would be the Bf and the bff, that the Bf would get the girl over the person who knows her better, and they have a better time with ?(lol did that make sense?)
haha, I tried to imterpret that right. But like I said before, maybe you do have a better time with your bff. But..maybe you're not attracted to him...like just because you have a good time together does not mean you would make the perfect couple. =/


If i were to meet a girl right now for the first time and i started liking her, what would be the things i would do that would lead me down the path of "lets just be friends" oppossed to the boyfriend path. and what would be the the things i would do to get to the path of Boyfriend opossed to just friend. because if it were me id want the best of both worlds a Gf and a bff.
And you are right there..sometimes the best relationship is one when you were formally bff's. Then it's built on a special bond. I guess what would lead you to boyfriend is flirting, and sweet remarks. I mean..if she gets the idea that you might possibly like her, and she's "flirting" back..then it would lead to boyfriend. But if you talk to her just like any of her other girl friends...thats bff material. I am not entirley sure I made since