Older guy, should i... Options

[Jayembe]

I want to go out with a seventeen year old but im only 13 (turning 14 in june oo can't wait). Yes he likes me and i like him but what if we decide to have sex or fool around is this illegal?

[Chii]

Once he turns 18, it is illegal, and currently it's still illegal. Actually, it's illegal to have sex until you're 18. But what cops are gonna bang down your bedroom door?

good god people, it depends which state you live in.

i live in new york and the legal age to have sex is 17. there can only be a maximum difference of 4 years in the ages of a relationship...i know that applies in new york but i don't know about anywhere else, but i'm pretty sure that's the law for everyone or at least most people.

it's simply ridiculous that people are worried that when whoever hits 18 you have to break up because it's illegal. what's the sense in that? "oh no baby, i'm sorry we have to break up our relationship of 3 years because my birthday is tomorrow"

if you're really old and the other person is really young, it doesn't matter as long as nothing sexual happens...even if you do mess around it's okay as long as the younger person in the relationship doesn't press charges.

but people should be careful, for the guys: girls are always made to be the victim in most scenarios so even if the girl says it's fine...someday down the road she can turn on you and accuse you of raping her.