If you believe that your best friend is a rapist, what do you do about it? |
 May 3 2005, 04:23 PM
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 hardbodyactiv...always so hard  Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,804  |
Your best friend has started acting really weird lately...
He's preoccupied in an unnatural and violent way towards women using derogative and degrading speech and suggesting pathalogical sexual violence using a particular method, say, hooded and using a hammer as the threatening weapon. Then a girl gets attacked and raped and describes her attacker as hooded using a hammer to threaten her with. This is your best friend of 12 years. You went to school together and you've even talked about starting a business together after graduation. What do you do? Confront him and risk losing your best friend...or perhaps get attacked yourself? Go to the cops and shop your best friend, who may be innocent? Do nothing and hope that it wasn't him or was an isolated incident? Or something else? Whatever you do you could be about to lose your best friend. But you also may save another woman from this dreadful ordeal and perhaps save a lfe. Think about this one because its sure to have happened....  Peace Out |
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May 9 2005, 10:12 PM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
So, instead of looking a bit .. dumb as the others.
Was this thread hypothetical? Because from reading it, it's obvious you're not concerned, which leads me to believe you're just writing to put us in that situation to see what we'd do. |
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May 10 2005, 08:45 AM
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hardbodyactiv...always so hard Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,804 |
QUOTE(jordanriane @ May 10 2005, 4:12 AM) So, instead of looking a bit .. dumb as the others. Was this thread hypothetical? Because from reading it, it's obvious you're not concerned, which leads me to believe you're just writing to put us in that situation to see what we'd do.  Well done. Yes, I put this thread up as a hypothetical situation, although that really should be obvious to everyone. As for not being concerned. Well it does concern me in as much as I want to provoke thoughtful and intelligent comments on what is a very serious subject, one that unfortunately at least one poster here may very well find themselves in @ some point in their teens or 20's, possibly 30's. Please continue to post on the thread and particularly if any have personal experience of this situation... Peace Out |
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hardbodyactiv If you believe that your best friend is a rapist May 3 2005, 04:23 PM
Frankie TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS May 3 2005, 05:39 PM kyuubi319 Damn. I suggest going to the police. It's bett... May 3 2005, 06:18 PM
vampireduster QUOTE(kyuubi319 @ May 3 2005, 5:18 PM)Damn. I... May 6 2005, 08:51 AM
HoodieObsessed QUOTE(kyuubi319 @ May 3 2005, 3:18 PM)Damn. I... May 9 2005, 03:40 PM Guhk i would confront my friend at once. i would be so ... May 3 2005, 06:25 PM mzkandi I would go to the police with I suspect. They will... May 3 2005, 06:25 PM iNyCxShoRT don't confront him! he might attack you i ... May 3 2005, 06:52 PM aNg3LBaBi3 talk to him with someone else who is also close to... May 3 2005, 07:14 PM aera going to the police is that safest choice. make su... May 3 2005, 07:20 PM angel_revelation QUOTE(akinachan @ May 3 2005, 4:20 PM)going t... May 3 2005, 08:18 PM pinayprincess police! police! somebody call 911!... May 3 2005, 08:18 PM x3__iGiVEup i think you should report him. i mean he is a rapi... May 3 2005, 09:15 PM Ballpointpencil I would get another friend to follow (in a discret... May 3 2005, 09:57 PM gladz612 hem... i suggest you confront your friend... but b... May 4 2005, 08:17 AM kimmie2204 wow wat a deep subject......just cuz of who i was.... May 4 2005, 02:47 PM Kneuklid Romance Report him...then kick his ass...then report him ^... May 4 2005, 03:55 PM Szeh Mine better not be a rapist. May 4 2005, 04:08 PM taintedtrash you should try and get some hard evidence to back ... May 4 2005, 10:35 PM xMyStIcShAd0wSx get the hell away from him and get him sum help. May 5 2005, 01:26 AM yanners it'd be hard decision, but in the end, i think... May 5 2005, 05:48 AM someflipguy You should go to the police. Just tell them his s... May 5 2005, 07:20 AM xMayleex I would just go to the police and just tell them, ... May 5 2005, 11:37 AM kryzcoak47luv666 Report him anonomously, because you don't want... May 5 2005, 07:21 PM liquidize i'd stay loyal to my buddy. May 5 2005, 10:04 PM FoOd I would stay loyal to my friend.
I mean, friendsh... May 5 2005, 10:07 PM ROARxD report him. even if he`s your best friend you ... May 8 2005, 07:40 PM blondisnirvana Report him if you think there's enough against... May 8 2005, 11:47 PM YaWeaveIzOnFiyah I wouldn`t immediately jump to conclusions, be... May 9 2005, 02:45 PM lilxl0ser shoo...i'de be scared to confront him...but i ... May 9 2005, 03:12 PM whatiismae DO NOT TALK TO HIM. I REPEAT, DO NOT TALK TO HIM.
... May 9 2005, 10:19 PM literemix24 I would confront my friend, and when I find proof,... May 19 2005, 05:28 PM Hohohehe i wouldlet da police deal with it
but ill also tal... May 20 2005, 12:24 AM dopeSOUL report and beat da Fcuk out of him May 20 2005, 10:39 AM |
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