asking a guy out, this saturday... Options

[raenbow*]

Hey so this is my first post!

Anyway, theres this guy i've liked for a long time and he knows i like him.. and he likes me too. He hasnt initiated anything (asked me out etc) but im sure he still likes me. So this saturday i was planning on asking him out [question one: is that a bad idea?] So i was going to do somthing w/ him saturday..sort of an unofficial date...and ask him out. When should i do it [at the beginning? middle? before we leave?] and what should we do??? [where to go] What do i do after he answers... i mean, if he rejects (prolly wont) what do i say... or if he says yes.. then what??? plus, im nervous...

I've obviously never asked out a guy before.. so any help would be nice THANKS!

[BELLA_RAGAZZA]

question 1 i've never really asked out a guy before.. they have always asked me out. but if he definately likes you.. then i don't see why not!

question 2 i say wait until the end of the date, unless you know for a fact that hes having a good time.. you can try the middle. i woudln't ask him out in the beginning because well.. i don't think that's a good way to start out a date.

qusetion 3 for me, it usually depends on my mood. if i'm in the mood to just sit and relax i would say the movies, but if your in the mood for like being upbeat and stuff maybe you would like to go bowling or something? maybe out to eat.. or if you like to laugh and stuff maybe go to see a comedy act? just go to a place where you BOTH will feel comfortable & have fun together.

if you know for a fact that he won't reject you then just go for it .. but if he rejects then just like.. play it smooth i guess. don't be like "OH MY GOD he didn't say yes to me!" and start flipping out... just act cool about it and pretend it doesn't bother you (even though it might)

well good luck with whatever you do, and i hope i helped you!