asking a guy out, this saturday... Options

[raenbow*]

Hey so this is my first post!

Anyway, theres this guy i've liked for a long time and he knows i like him.. and he likes me too. He hasnt initiated anything (asked me out etc) but im sure he still likes me. So this saturday i was planning on asking him out [question one: is that a bad idea?] So i was going to do somthing w/ him saturday..sort of an unofficial date...and ask him out. When should i do it [at the beginning? middle? before we leave?] and what should we do??? [where to go] What do i do after he answers... i mean, if he rejects (prolly wont) what do i say... or if he says yes.. then what??? plus, im nervous...

I've obviously never asked out a guy before.. so any help would be nice THANKS!

[..:loveee.NuTTii]

[question one: is that a bad idea?]

Of course not-the worst he'll do is say no. If he likes you and you like him, this may be the next step.

[at the beginning? middle? before we leave?]

Well...I would ask at the end and be like, "Well, I had a nice time. I'd kinda like to go out a lil more seriously...." or maybe you shouldn't listen to me- 'cause I'm greener at this stuff than you ...jp

[where to go]

I would suggest the movies....if you feel akward you can just stare at the screen. Plus, it's not as much pressure as if it were some kind of restaurant, where you'd have to get all dressed up.

What do i do after he answers... i mean, if he rejects (prolly wont) what do i say... or if he says yes.. then what???

Just nod and say, "Ok, I'll pick you up at 8" like you didn't hear"No" Don't make the question too heartfelt-then you'll have a much bigger fall. But you said he likes you and ou like him so I don't see the problem.

im nervous...

aha-well cB's praying for ya. Just knock 'em dead


I hope this helped...