can anyone spare some advice, please??, I need it.. Options

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Okay, well.. I went out with this guy Chris for like a week a week or two ago. I really really liked him. See, he'd just moved here from a few towns away, and I thought he was really cute, and he felt the same way about me. Then, on a Monday after second hour (we have that class together) he breaks it off cause 'something happened over the weekend'. Well, while I was going out with him we three-wayed his friend from his old school, Zach. I really liked talking to him and everything.

Now, I still talk to Zach and Chris and all my friends got into a really big fight cause Chris told Zach on the phone that I was annoying and my friend Ashley had a 'rooster chin'. He's not really mean, he's super sweet.. He just notices peoples flaws, and doesn't intend on those people to hear. Well, Zach told us. Everyone got pissed off. My friends were sooo rude, throwing things at him and such. Now he has no friends and I feel bad. I gave him a note on Friday and apologized for myself and my friends bad behavior.. He still WON'T TALK TO ME! I HATE THIS!

I honestly want to be his friend, but I don't know what to do to ease this tension between us. It really sucks. It also sucks that I still like him, and don't know what to do..

Please give me some advice, I need it.. Thanks.

Lacey

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Chris told Zach on the phone that I was annoying and my friend Ashley had a 'rooster chin'. He's not really mean, he's super sweet.. He just notices peoples flaws, and doesn't intend on those people to hear.

wow ok that doesnt sound like a guy who is "super sweet"! That is called gossiping and you totally dont wanna be involved with any guy who gossips ESPECIALLY about your friends. And you wrote him an apology? why? HE should be the one apologizing! Yes your friends were mean to throw stuff at him but you dont have to apologize for them!

Ok so you still like him. I understand where ur coming from. I use to like a guy who treated everyone like crap and talked behind peoples back. But for some reason I saw the good in him. But my friends talked me outta it. Now im so greatful of them because now that I got outta the crush i had on him i fully see the jerk that he is. You just need to move on. Find someone else to like. Its hard to get over someone, I know, but seriously the only thing you can do to get over him is to give it time. It speeds up the process to find someone else so do that if you can.

Hope I could help