i don't know anymore, boyfriend...tears...heartbroken |
 May 7 2005, 07:52 PM
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 dakishimetainoni...  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318  |
i don't know...i always have advice for other people but i just never have any for myself...
i 've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and a handful of days so far, we started as really good friends and we all know how that goes, we ended up together and there were rainbows and sunshine... but now...the birds aren't chirping anymore, it's not happy happy anymore. we see each other everyday and it's been all good...but during the past week it's been so rocky... about an hour ago he told me that he didn't want to see me for a good long while...i'm afraid to ask if we're still together but if we weren't he would have told me. we broke up once because of all the fighting but we got back together to work things out. today started out good but then i overreacted about something and today went to hell. i've tried talking bu he just won't respond he doesn't talk about anything, he just bottles up everything. i probably try to push things out of him too hard...but it's difficult for me not to. it's like what am i supposed to do? play the waiting game to see if he's going to change his mind and see me everyday? or if he's had enough? i'm just so lost in everything. i'm scared of not being with him, it hurts to think about it. i just wish that some miracle would happen and he wouldn't be in this funk... i'm just so upset about this...i just need some words of encouragement or something nice...anything...advice...i'm just so lost 
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May 8 2005, 08:22 AM
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It seems like you guys need some time apart, too. I mean, maybe he just has some things in life that he just doesn't feel like sharing like problems with his family or friends or something. If he doesn't feel like talking, then don't force him to talk. Wait a while and maybe even try to avoid him until he's ready to talk to you.
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Chii i don't know anymore May 7 2005, 07:52 PM
aera i think he said he doesnt want to see you for a wh... May 7 2005, 08:01 PM enyceXaddiction i know how you feel i give so much people advice a... May 7 2005, 09:18 PM Nicolatofu It sounds like maybe you two need some time apart.... May 7 2005, 09:22 PM _sarcastic_ *hugs* i hope you feel better soon.
just take so... May 7 2005, 10:39 PM Shattered_Hope Why don't you just give him a few days to thin... May 7 2005, 10:49 PM yanners awww. i hope it gets better
i think you should ... May 7 2005, 11:11 PM yukichan try wait a couple of days before talking to him..d... May 8 2005, 04:45 AM blondisnirvana I'm so sorry. If you broke up because of fight... May 8 2005, 08:34 AM lilxl0ser awwhs...im sorrie to hear about that? err...what i... May 8 2005, 08:46 AM mouse_3k Every relationship is not like prince charming. U ... May 8 2005, 11:26 AM iNyCxShoRT maybe he just wants a break from all that relation... May 8 2005, 02:46 PM ROARxD i agree with inycxshort; maybe he just wants some ... May 8 2005, 07:26 PM
xxaznxgurlxx I think that you guys need to cool the things down... May 8 2005, 07:38 PM |
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