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death, in a friend's family...
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post May 6 2005, 08:55 PM
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and so it is
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Well, I guess the subject's self-explainitory, huh? Basically, my best friend's grandpa died the other day, and I really haven't seen her all that much since, because she wasn't at school due to wake. The funeral's tomorrow, and I'm invited, but I just don't know what to say to her. ermm.gif I've never had anybody close to me die before, so I really don't know how she feels, because I've never been placed in that situation before. Some of answers are obvious, but I don't know, death is just a hard thing to deal with, and I'm just trying to help in any way that I can. Any suggestions?
 
 
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misskentucky
post May 7 2005, 12:01 PM
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Oh Goddamnit.
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I think the best thing you can do for her is to just be there for her, always be available to talk, especially if she was very close to her grandfather. Oh and hugs, hugs make the world go 'round!
 

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Lil_Cloud   death   May 6 2005, 08:55 PM
Szeh   Oh sorry to hear that...   May 6 2005, 09:02 PM
ahhishkaren   It depends how close your friend was to her grandf...   May 6 2005, 09:08 PM
nyCzxfOx   i know how you feel. x_x all i did was try my best...   May 6 2005, 09:41 PM
WhiteLotus*   Comfort her and be her crying shoulder. Just bein...   May 6 2005, 11:42 PM
toodlepops.   Just go to the funeral and say 'I'm really...   May 7 2005, 03:51 AM
Cake.   Just be like "sorry about your grandfather, h...   May 7 2005, 07:54 AM
ThePrincessofTKD   just hug her, and be honest with her. tell her tha...   May 7 2005, 09:51 AM
helllla jankyyyy   QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ May 7 2005, 9:51 AM)...   May 7 2005, 07:51 PM
iheartsimba   Just make sure you tell her you're there for h...   May 7 2005, 09:53 AM
(^_^)   My father passed away when I was younger. It made ...   May 7 2005, 11:55 AM
misskentucky   I think the best thing you can do for her is to ju...   May 7 2005, 12:01 PM
aera   hug her and comfort her. tell her that youll be th...   May 7 2005, 07:29 PM
stephinika   i'm really sorry to hear that, but yeah a frie...   May 7 2005, 07:39 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   well telll your friend that her grandpa is in a be...   May 7 2005, 11:50 PM
_sarcastic_   i'm sorry. my granddad passed away even befor...   May 8 2005, 08:02 AM
ROARxD   wow; thats hard. just tell her what yu realy feel   May 8 2005, 09:28 AM
iNyCxShoRT   Tell her that you're sorry for her loss but al...   May 8 2005, 07:40 PM
vampireduster   last year the samething happened to my best friend...   May 9 2005, 03:45 PM
Frankie   my speech book, i read about nonverbal communicati...   May 9 2005, 04:14 PM


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