death, in a friend's family... |
 May 6 2005, 08:55 PM
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 and so it is  Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085  |
Well, I guess the subject's self-explainitory, huh? Basically, my best friend's grandpa died the other day, and I really haven't seen her all that much since, because she wasn't at school due to wake. The funeral's tomorrow, and I'm invited, but I just don't know what to say to her.
 I've never had anybody close to me die before, so I really don't know how she feels, because I've never been placed in that situation before. Some of answers are obvious, but I don't know, death is just a hard thing to deal with, and I'm just trying to help in any way that I can. Any suggestions?
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May 7 2005, 03:51 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Just go to the funeral and say 'I'm really sorry'
If she wants to cry, let her. If she wants to talk, let her. Just make her feel comfortable. |
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Lil_Cloud death May 6 2005, 08:55 PM
Szeh Oh sorry to hear that... May 6 2005, 09:02 PM ahhishkaren It depends how close your friend was to her grandf... May 6 2005, 09:08 PM nyCzxfOx i know how you feel. x_x all i did was try my best... May 6 2005, 09:41 PM WhiteLotus* Comfort her and be her crying shoulder. Just bein... May 6 2005, 11:42 PM Cake. Just be like "sorry about your grandfather, h... May 7 2005, 07:54 AM ThePrincessofTKD just hug her, and be honest with her. tell her tha... May 7 2005, 09:51 AM
helllla jankyyyy QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ May 7 2005, 9:51 AM)... May 7 2005, 07:51 PM iheartsimba Just make sure you tell her you're there for h... May 7 2005, 09:53 AM (^_^) My father passed away when I was younger. It made ... May 7 2005, 11:55 AM misskentucky I think the best thing you can do for her is to ju... May 7 2005, 12:01 PM aera hug her and comfort her. tell her that youll be th... May 7 2005, 07:29 PM stephinika i'm really sorry to hear that, but yeah a frie... May 7 2005, 07:39 PM xxaznxgurlxx well telll your friend that her grandpa is in a be... May 7 2005, 11:50 PM _sarcastic_ i'm sorry. my granddad passed away even befor... May 8 2005, 08:02 AM ROARxD wow; thats hard. just tell her what yu realy feel May 8 2005, 09:28 AM iNyCxShoRT Tell her that you're sorry for her loss but al... May 8 2005, 07:40 PM vampireduster last year the samething happened to my best friend... May 9 2005, 03:45 PM Frankie my speech book, i read about nonverbal communicati... May 9 2005, 04:14 PM |
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