death, in a friend's family... |
 May 6 2005, 08:55 PM
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 and so it is  Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085  |
Well, I guess the subject's self-explainitory, huh? Basically, my best friend's grandpa died the other day, and I really haven't seen her all that much since, because she wasn't at school due to wake. The funeral's tomorrow, and I'm invited, but I just don't know what to say to her.
 I've never had anybody close to me die before, so I really don't know how she feels, because I've never been placed in that situation before. Some of answers are obvious, but I don't know, death is just a hard thing to deal with, and I'm just trying to help in any way that I can. Any suggestions?
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May 6 2005, 11:42 PM
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Comfort her and be her crying shoulder. Just being at the funeral would probably make her feel so much better.
Also, cook for the family. Usually the family is so saddened, they don't cook for awhile. A home cooked meal would say a lot. I dunno, Mom did that when a close friend of mine died. |
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Lil_Cloud death May 6 2005, 08:55 PM
Szeh Oh sorry to hear that... May 6 2005, 09:02 PM ahhishkaren It depends how close your friend was to her grandf... May 6 2005, 09:08 PM nyCzxfOx i know how you feel. x_x all i did was try my best... May 6 2005, 09:41 PM toodlepops. Just go to the funeral and say 'I'm really... May 7 2005, 03:51 AM Cake. Just be like "sorry about your grandfather, h... May 7 2005, 07:54 AM ThePrincessofTKD just hug her, and be honest with her. tell her tha... May 7 2005, 09:51 AM
helllla jankyyyy QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ May 7 2005, 9:51 AM)... May 7 2005, 07:51 PM iheartsimba Just make sure you tell her you're there for h... May 7 2005, 09:53 AM (^_^) My father passed away when I was younger. It made ... May 7 2005, 11:55 AM misskentucky I think the best thing you can do for her is to ju... May 7 2005, 12:01 PM aera hug her and comfort her. tell her that youll be th... May 7 2005, 07:29 PM stephinika i'm really sorry to hear that, but yeah a frie... May 7 2005, 07:39 PM xxaznxgurlxx well telll your friend that her grandpa is in a be... May 7 2005, 11:50 PM _sarcastic_ i'm sorry. my granddad passed away even befor... May 8 2005, 08:02 AM ROARxD wow; thats hard. just tell her what yu realy feel May 8 2005, 09:28 AM iNyCxShoRT Tell her that you're sorry for her loss but al... May 8 2005, 07:40 PM vampireduster last year the samething happened to my best friend... May 9 2005, 03:45 PM Frankie my speech book, i read about nonverbal communicati... May 9 2005, 04:14 PM |
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