"juss friends", is anybody able to do it? |
 May 5 2005, 03:12 AM
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me -n- my bf broke up recently...-n- it was a mutual thing since we're both happy -n- whtnot...-n- we promised to remain "juss friends" but we're like....ignoring each other...has this happened to neone else out there? neone able to accomplish to still remain friends? ---
P.S. we broke up 'boutz two days ago after going out for a lil ova 6 months...if that helps 
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May 6 2005, 10:46 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
Same thing happened to me, it's hard, I'm not gonna lie. The problem is since it was mutual there is no one to blame, if there was someone to blame than it would be easier to just get pissed off at the dumper and move on. But since it's mutal, neither of you quite know what to think of the sitatuion. Things are always awkward after a relationship, especially a six-monther. If you two are truly meant to be friends then you just have to give it time to heal, it's still too soon. The feelings don't just magically go away just because you broke up, sure they are faded, but you still care about eachother a lot and it's hard to make the transition from boyfriend&girlfriend to just friends. You'll both get over it soon enough, just be nice to eachother.
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aznangel4eva "juss friends" May 5 2005, 03:12 AM
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