friendship, ever felt this? Options

[teeners4]

it's my birthday today. and im sick. stayed at home the whole day and missed school.

the close group of people i hang with (5 best friends) NONE of them phoned me of asked if i'm okay. after school when they came online they're like "u werent at school today." then after we kept talking and they're like " oh right it's your birthday. happy birthday"

one of them totally forgot and the other one was like "it's your birthday?"

i just feel so neglected.

i dont know what i did wrong in life. i mean sure i've been a bitch. and i DO believe in karma... but honestly. noone remembered?

and it's so weird. cause everyone else (even ppl i dont talk to) phoned me or msg me and said HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!

why are my most reliable, trustworthy friends acting like this?

yea i needed to vent. i know i did a topic like this in another forum

but have you ever felt this?

feel neglected.......
i'm beginning to question....

what did i do wrong?

[Ballpointpencil]

Call me weird, but I don't think it was that horrible of your friends to forget. Not a good thing, but not as evil and demonic as it seems some people are taking it. Is your party today? Have you been talking about it? I mean, unless your friends are super organized, they probably don't have your b-day written down on a calender that they see every single day, nor memorized. Some people can memorize stuff. Others can't. I couldn't even tell you my kid sister's birthday, much less my best friends' birthdays, not because I don't love 'em or because I am wrapped up in myself, I simply have a bad memory (something that, at least in my experience, in a rather common thing with teenagers).

[ghjgfkgfk]

Call me weird, but I don't think it was that horrible of your friends to forget. Not a good thing, but not as evil and demonic as it seems some people are taking it. Is your party today? Have you been talking about it? I mean, unless your friends are super organized, they probably don't have your b-day written down on a calender that they see every single day, nor memorized. Some people can memorize stuff. Others can't. I couldn't even tell you my kid sister's birthday, much less my best friends' birthdays, not because I don't love 'em or because I am wrapped up in myself, I simply have a bad memory (something that, at least in my experience, in a rather common thing with teenagers).

i agree. i don't think your friends meant to hurt you because some of friends forget my birthday but i didn't care because i'll probably forget theirs too.