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[iheartsimba]

There's this guy..I've sort of had a bit of obsession on for almost 3 years now. I went out with him...in 7th grade. Things were great..but I don't want to get into it. We broke up..moved on.

But the things is. I never got over him..usually people stop thinking about ex's maybe after a month of grieving..but this has been over a year. So after the breakup, a lot of drama happened. Because about 4 months later (still obsessed)..he went out with my best friend (what a bitch, right?!). He's probably over me. He's had about 3 girlfriends since me..and I've had...yes, zero.

My friend is convincing me..I should just tell him how I feel. But how weird is that! We sort of lost track. You know, there's an I.M. now and then, and a 'Hey' in the hall. But nothing more. He'd think I'm like crazy. I want to get to know him again though.

So my question seems pretty dumb after that.
...but..When it comes to getting to know someone..again. How?

I try to talk to him online..but there's really nothing to talk about after the "sup nmu? nm. cool. yeah"...the typical. I know I fell in love with his personality...when I knew him more. And it just sucks, feeling like I can't talk to him like I used to. Sorry if this doesn't make since...but help would be apprieciated.

[someflipguy]

I been in the same situation. I haven't talked to my ex for about two years now since we broke up. But, the thing is you have to find another person to replace those memories of the person that you once cared for. Going back and trying is sometimes harder.