parents are driving me insane |
parents are driving me insane |
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I'm 19 years old and I live with my parents. Why you ask? It's about a 5 minute walk from the college I attend, and plus, free rent. But the downside of that is I have to deal with my parents. I have come to an age where everything they do gets on my nerves. I love them dearly but I would love to move out.
I have to go to bed when they do. I can't stay up past the time they go to bed or my dad will get angry. Last night I stayed up all night because I was afraid I was going to sleep in. I'm starting a new job about 1 1/2 hours away from here for the summer and I have to wake up at 6am every day. My parents keep saying "You're going to have a tough time there." That really upsets me for some reason. Even with school work, they'll be like, "Study! Or there's a job at Wal-Mart waiting for you". That makes me feel depressed. ![]() What I would love to do is move out of town, and go study school somewhere fun, and nice. God, I wish that were true. I also forgot to mention that the other day I was saying to my mom that I was really cold that day. She said in response, "I don't know". They're not even listening. ![]() |
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![]() sweet but sour ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 170 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,953 ![]() |
i also say go for it, talk to them that your ready to be on your own and be independent. of course, remind them of how much you love them and thank them for everything. basically try to say more good than bad. definitely plan it out, drop it on them when you guys are getting along and happy. its better to drop it on them while they're happy, they won't be as angry. i have parents like yours, they're not very supportive and are always saying negative things or just dont listen like yours (seems that way by what you said, so no offense if im getting the wrong idea). i rlly suggest you move out cuz its better for you emotionally, and mentally.
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