If you believe that your best friend is a rapist, what do you do about it? Options

[hardbodyactiv]

Your best friend has started acting really weird lately...

He's preoccupied in an unnatural and violent way towards women using derogative and degrading speech and suggesting pathalogical sexual violence using a particular method, say, hooded and using a hammer as the threatening weapon.

Then a girl gets attacked and raped and describes her attacker as hooded using a hammer to threaten her with.

This is your best friend of 12 years. You went to school together and you've even talked about starting a business together after graduation.

What do you do? Confront him and risk losing your best friend...or perhaps get attacked yourself? Go to the cops and shop your best friend, who may be innocent? Do nothing and hope that it wasn't him or was an isolated incident? Or something else?

Whatever you do you could be about to lose your best friend. But you also may save another woman from this dreadful ordeal and perhaps save a lfe.

Think about this one because its sure to have happened....


Peace Out

[aNg3LBaBi3]

talk to him with someone else who is also close to both of you (preferabbly a guy or an adult and also let someone else know besides you three about the convo). don't let the others know you told someone else though, its for your own protection. some people are closer to others and you have no idea, so its better to play it safe. tell him how you feel and explain to him if he did do it, wha he did was wrong. don't bitch, just talk calmly. if he is a good person and did it, he should confess. if he doesnt dont bother to be his friend; although he is your best friend. do you want people to know you hang out with a rapist? he could end up raping you. who wants a friend that has done something that cruel? it isn't worth it, in the end. you'll feel different about him and your friendship. so, i don't see a point.