WHat Now, Friends fighting |
 Apr 29 2005, 01:21 PM
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i don't know what i'm supposed to do anymore, some of my best friends are getting mad at me because they say I'm in an abusive friendship, but they don't understand. Ok, i have this friend, he's a realy strong and intimidating guy, but really nice. He tells me everything, things no one else would in their right minds think of telling someone so I'm really close with him. He gets angry a lot, andwhen he does he'll yell, usaully at me, to let steam off. This doesn't bother me, cause he won't ever hit, i know that for a fact, you gotta trust me here, but sometimes when he puts the blame on me he'll grabb my arm and pull me off to the side. And once when he thought i said something to a girl he liked he grabbed my hair and pulled me to the ground. He always feels really bad after he does it, but that's just the way he reacts to things and he knows i understand. My friends don't. They think i need to stop forgiving him, report him, or least get angry with him after he does things like that. How am I supposed to make them understand my point of view without hem saying that I'm in "denial"?
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Apr 30 2005, 04:01 PM
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Ummm, sorry hun, but you are in an abusive relationship.
Either tell the guy to stop doing the abusiveness or you'll report him. I think you have friends for a reason. You trust their decision. Thats the basis of a friendship. Listen to your friends. 
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troubled_angel WHat Now Apr 29 2005, 01:21 PM
mzkandi He pulls your hair and pulled you to the ground... Apr 29 2005, 01:26 PM xMyStIcShAd0wSx you have to tell your friends that. they are just ... Apr 29 2005, 01:27 PM ROARxD i gues juss tell themyur point of the story
and te... Apr 29 2005, 01:28 PM iNyCxShoRT well tell them your story from your point of view.... Apr 29 2005, 01:30 PM Kneuklid Romance ......can I kick this guy's ass please?
-Kevy... Apr 29 2005, 02:53 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 um..ok i understand that ur friend lets off steam ... Apr 29 2005, 03:42 PM aera he yells at you to let off steam. he pulls your ha... Apr 30 2005, 03:03 PM x3__iGiVEup I think you should listen to your friends on this ... Apr 30 2005, 03:59 PM
_sarcastic_ it doesn't matter if he apologizes after he hu... Apr 30 2005, 08:12 PM |
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