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crush&friend problems, blehh!
xlaydee_v
post Apr 24 2005, 07:04 PM
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Alright, so you see I like this guy a LOT. My friend used to like him and most likely still does, but she keeps denying it which pisses me off like crazy. Plus, she knows that I won't mind cause we're friends.. and I'm not that type. She even used to like him twice before. Sometimes she even talks about him more than I do, which makes it even more obvious. At times when I would wonder if he liked me or not, she would make me look like a complete moron by going up to him and asking him if he liked me or not right in front of my face. She even asks for his phone number in public with his friends that don't know I like him. Then when we go to the mall, she says "OHH LOOK WHO HAS THOSE SHOES!" and they're the exact ones he has. Even when I don't mention him she talks about him.. Then she even shows me this MASH shit she did and the husband was him. I got so pissed and I just know she likes him. mad.gif err. But fortunately, I know for sure he doesn't like her.
~THEN this girl starts trying to steal all my friends away and drag them away from me.. Once i start becoming closer to someone, she has to too and butt in. When I told her i liked my crush, she started talking to him more and getting more near him. She always makes my friends go with her to places and shit like that. She ALWAYS has to have it her way.

Then, my crush isn't talking to me as much anymore. He used to go online evryday and talked to me but now he doesn't. My other friend asked him why and he said his sn got hacked and all his buddies got deleted. Maybe he's lying? I don't know.. These days he seems REALLY DEAD. I didn't talk to him in a while too. But, the thing is I really really really really <3 him and there's like no way to talk to him as much and ask him things I need to ask.

EHH.. help me guys. What should I do?
 
 
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sheddingtears
post Apr 30 2005, 12:05 AM
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wow.

if it's absolutely true that your friend's crush doesn't like her, then as a friend, tell her that. it's best if she moves on now before she really gets hurt. then again, she might think you want her crush all to yourself and that might kill your friendship.

maybe your friend should ask her crush how he feels about her and she might get the message.

as for that girl, she really wants to make you jealous. if your friend were real friends, wouldn't they stick by you? or at least tell you to come along? don't tell her your crushes and don't act as if you're bothered by her taking your friends away and such 'cause she seems to enjoy hurting you. act as if you don't care and hang out with different people.

as for your crush, it really seems like he's avoiding you and moving on, or it could be that he really is busy. just try to find him and talk to him since you like him so much.
 

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xlaydee_v   crush&friend problems   Apr 24 2005, 07:04 PM
LadyXTor   It sounds like you have some trust issues. It doe...   Apr 24 2005, 07:07 PM
mzkandi   Ok, so I think the real issue is between you and y...   Apr 24 2005, 07:14 PM
xlaydee_v   lols, in fact she DOES KNOW HOW I FEEL. >< t...   Apr 24 2005, 07:16 PM
mzkandi   QUOTE(xlaydee_v @ Apr 24 2005, 8:16 PM)lols, ...   Apr 24 2005, 07:19 PM
ApocalypseAelis   If she knows you like him, and she keeps acting th...   Apr 25 2005, 12:00 PM
Shattered_Hope   Talk to your friend about this....and if she conti...   Apr 24 2005, 07:27 PM
yukichan   talk to ur friend..if she continues to act like th...   Apr 24 2005, 08:00 PM
aera   tell her to stop. she doesnt seem much like a frie...   Apr 24 2005, 09:52 PM
x3__iGiVEup   Hmmm, that's tough. Especially with someone in...   Apr 25 2005, 11:52 AM
Szeh   Does this friend or the guy know you like him? If ...   Apr 25 2005, 01:33 PM
xlaydee_v   QUOTE(JAMx33 @ Apr 25 2005, 1:33 PM)Does this...   Apr 25 2005, 03:29 PM
cHuNsAbAbIe012   wow...trust issues...n yea...she's not a frien...   Apr 25 2005, 04:29 PM
iNyCxShoRT   well she doesnt own him so i dont think its your f...   Apr 28 2005, 08:58 PM
pinayprincess   it smells like your jealous of your friend... and ...   Apr 28 2005, 09:05 PM
moo.   yes vania.... forgive your enemies. ill try doing ...   Apr 29 2005, 09:13 PM
sheddingtears   wow. if it's absolutely true that your frien...   Apr 30 2005, 12:05 AM
sumipark   first off..that is not a friend..second..yu need t...   Apr 30 2005, 12:05 AM
xlaydee_v   RAWRR! ok im going a bit ballistic, but like h...   May 1 2005, 02:09 PM


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