What should i choose?, Help me! |
 Apr 29 2005, 07:50 PM
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 Styna  Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047  |
Well i've got this friend named Jon and he likes me and i like him but for now we just flirt and laugh and are still friends but I know that at some point he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend. Sure i would say yes but theres a problem behind it. Every single girl Jon has dated in the past he's dumped and hated to the point that he wont even ever talk to her. He'll call her a slut or tell her that he hates her. I really like Jon and since im young i obviously know it ain't going to last forever but, i want to be his girlfriend at the same time i dont want to have him end up hating me. Should i say no if he asks or should i say yes and hope that its going to last very long. I don't wanna hurt him but i dont wanna lose him either.
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Apr 29 2005, 08:13 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
umm...you do know that the point of dating is to find your future spouse right...?
 you don't date to just for little flings or just to have a boyfriend/girlfriend, you date because you're attracted to someone and you see a good future...this is usually why really young people shouldn't date, they just date to date, not for love. he seems like a jerk, is this what you want to deal with for the rest of your life? ...or in your case, the next few days/weeks? |
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Jayembe What should i choose? Apr 29 2005, 07:50 PM
dahding he doesn't sound mature enough to be in any re... Apr 29 2005, 07:53 PM silver rain Well I think that since you both like each other, ... Apr 29 2005, 08:02 PM WrathOfOnigo Erm.. please say no to him. See, even if you are ... Apr 29 2005, 08:15 PM cHuNsAbAbIe012 lol! he's not ready for a serious relation... Apr 29 2005, 08:26 PM Shattered_Hope If you like him then take a crazy chance. Apr 29 2005, 09:05 PM x3__iGiVEup say no. it's not worth losing a friend. say no... Apr 29 2005, 09:08 PM T_R_G basing this on what you said its a risky situation... Apr 29 2005, 09:13 PM [X]poised it sounds like this guy isn't ready for a rela... Apr 29 2005, 09:28 PM
sheddingtears don't think about what would happen when he br... Apr 29 2005, 11:44 PM |
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