What should i choose?, Help me! Options

[Jayembe]

Well i've got this friend named Jon and he likes me and i like him but for now we just flirt and laugh and are still friends but I know that at some point he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend. Sure i would say yes but theres a problem behind it. Every single girl Jon has dated in the past he's dumped and hated to the point that he wont even ever talk to her. He'll call her a slut or tell her that he hates her. I really like Jon and since im young i obviously know it ain't going to last forever but, i want to be his girlfriend at the same time i dont want to have him end up hating me. Should i say no if he asks or should i say yes and hope that its going to last very long. I don't wanna hurt him but i dont wanna lose him either.

[silver-rain]

Well I think that since you both like each other, you should say yes. Don't worry about the future, concentrate on the present. Since he likes you, and you like him too, just focus on that. You shouldn't stress out about the breakup. True even though it might not last long but maybe your relationship might not end up like his other ones, it could last, or end amicably. You wouldn't really know unless you accept and see what happens.
Good luck.