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[eloCiN]

lets say i jus asked a girl out, she said yes.. n i write i love u n shit.. in my profile.. n my xanga or w/e n tell her that.. ppl be complaining oh its to early to say i love u.. but then if i liked her b4 that, isnt it ok to say u love her.. but then again.. even if u do, n it too early for others.. u say the "date - i love u" like that to show that u care, respect n shit.. u guys get me??

[Chii]

I see a lot of people of my grade or whatnot and they're all "Bob, I love you 4/10/05" or whatever (that was just an example, btw.) And quite frankly, personally I wouldn't want to do that. I mean, love is love and I think you should say it when you feel it, not only because they're your girlfriend/boyfriend. But I see kids saying "I love you" so and so in their profile when they're only going out. I don't even think it's true love.

i hate it when people do that once, this girl made this whole profile (like one of those profiles when you click a link and this whole profile page comes up) about how she loves some guy...after ONE DAY, then she was showing it to people in a forum, the next day they broke up. things like this make people look like such idiots.

i don't understand how you could love her...you just asked her out, that does not mean you two are boyfriend and girlfriend, it's just merely a date.

even if you believe that you love her, you shouldn't advertise it everywhere so early in a relationship...you need to wait until you're both completely comfortable with each other...it would make me feel uneasy if someone asked me out and tole me he loved me, or told everyone before he told me (which seems like what you did because you put it everywhere)...