i feel like i'm being unfair, in judging him like this... |
i feel like i'm being unfair, in judging him like this... |
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![]() You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 ![]() |
so there's this guy i like in my PE class. he's in 9th grade, i'm in 8th. there are all these differences like he's popular, hott (lol there's a point with this) and really funny and everything... i could just go on. and i've gotten some hints for a while that he might like me, but i feel like it would be impossible (because of who i am... like he could have ANY of the pretty 9th grade girls) that he could like me, but from everything that's happened i dont really know what to think.
i've seen him to be mean to certain people. like really mean. and he swears a lot (not a LOT... but more then i'm used to with most ppl) and all this stuff, so i'm not really sure if he'd be my type. like the bad boy type. because it kind of scares/intimidates me sometimes. i talked about this with one of my friends, and she said that i was being stereotypical, that just because he was popular and w.e. doesnt mean that he couldn't like me... but dont people's actions speak for themselves? i mean he has called a girl in class various 'names', but then again he's so nice and sweet and funny and charming other times. but i dont know him at all... so he couldn't possibly like me for my personality but basically, my question is Do you think i should be so judgemental? i feel like i'm assuming everything... sorry this was really confusing and long... i'll try to rephrase if you dont get it ![]() |
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I'm Cattt. :] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 ![]() |
you first have to know him really well before you go judging him. is he really that charming and nice or is he really that bad?
one of my best guyfriends is a really nice guy, but he just has a habit of swearing every single other word and hacking stuff (he got suspended for hacking the schools system and seeing everyone grades) and cheating on tests (i cheat with him too). but inside he's a sweet guy whos fun to be around with. you just have to find his core personality. |
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