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![]() Want fries with that? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 ![]() |
This one guy and I are fighting, my friend is stressing over it because she wants us to be friends. He wants me to "change my personality" and I refused. He complains to her, stressing her out even more. I NEVER complained to her, I didn't want to stress her out...and he just keeps going even after we told him. Yes...I know...he's a biznatch.
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![]() Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 ![]() |
...first off you DONT change for anyone. You are yourself and only YOU can dictate those changes.
Secondly...this is a personal matter between two people... ...having him bring a third person to take his emotional stress out on shows he's a coward and a person who doesn't have very high self esteem. Yes he isn't too bright when it comes to trivial issues or life matters at that if he needs to hide behind someone else. Don't worry...everything will be ok. You need to take charge. -Kevyn |
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