6 feet under..., putting up a face |
 Apr 28 2005, 06:15 PM
Post
#1
|
|
 Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,802  |
i really like my bf but only as a friend and i know its never going to go anywhere jus because of my values. and i dont think i can ever love him... i still like someone else. but that someone else has moved on. i thought i could end things on a good term with my bf right before i wen away to college. but he keeps talking about the future. and hurting him is the last thing i ever wanna do. hes one of my best friends. but its kiling me to keep pretending with him... i keep thinking maybe i could start to really really like him but its not happening...
help? edit*** THANKS TO EVERYONE THAT REPLIED. u've all been very helpful. i will tell him but im gonna wait just a bit cuz he really wants to go to prom with me and i jus cant do it before prom i wish i could but thats not gonna happen. have u guys ever been in a situation like this and wat did u do and how did the guy react??? THANK YOU AGAIN!!! 
|
|
|
|
 |
Replies
|
Apr 28 2005, 06:46 PM
Post
#2
|
|
 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
Don't put up a facade with him. That's one of the worst things you can do to a person; Fake a relationship with him. Don't say that you've just been with him so you don't hurt him. It'll upset him further if you make him aware that you've been faking your emotions.
Start to talk to him, let him know that you're starting to care for him as just a friend, and that you want him in your future, but not as a partner, but as your best friend. The further you let this go, the more he'll start to think that the relationship will last longer, and the harder it will be on him. |
|
|
|
Posts in this topic
LiLShawty988 6 feet under... Apr 28 2005, 06:15 PM
HoodieObsessed QUOTE(jordanriane @ Apr 28 2005, 3:46 PM)Star... Apr 29 2005, 03:24 PM
angel_revelation pretending is going to make it worse... he might ... Apr 28 2005, 06:52 PM _sarcastic_ i know telling him the truth is hard, and you... Apr 28 2005, 08:01 PM mzkandi This should be in Relationships
I felt the same w... Apr 28 2005, 08:09 PM pinayprincess "i think it is time to meet new people, i don... Apr 28 2005, 08:35 PM aera just say that you dont think that the relationship... Apr 28 2005, 08:36 PM iNyCxShoRT you should break up with him. if he finds out abou... Apr 28 2005, 08:44 PM x3__iGiVEup i say it's better to end it now than to keep i... Apr 28 2005, 11:05 PM Shattered_Hope If all you feel for him is friendship....then tell... Apr 29 2005, 03:03 PM |
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: