I'm so lost and broken, I need advice...Help...Please? |
 Apr 27 2005, 08:44 PM
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I hurt a guy that I love...I hurt him really badly and that caused our breakup. We hadn't talked ofr a month and now we talk again. I went ot his house today and we had an amazing night....I now realize how bad i screwed up. Him and I both want eachother...But he's afraid of commiment and he claims to have no feelings...for anythign....I know he does....we were so....intimate tonight and I just dont know wat to do...I want him back and it hurts really bad......I'm so lost...My heart aches and longs for him....I want him back and I just dont know what to do. We talked tonight online and we both made good points...I know he felt something...He did...I know it....He's going to sleep on it and talk to me tomorow....What should I do? Should I wait? Should I move on? What?
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Apr 27 2005, 09:01 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE("") Him and I both want eachother Well what's the problem isn't it? You want each other. But do you NEED each other? There is a significant difference between the two, and it seems right now he doesn't need you. (may change in the future) If he's afraid of commitment then well...what more can I say? But also keep in mind that when you hurt someone...it will take a LONG LONG time to gain that trust back. Especially from guys... ...however this attitude on his part isn't very uncommon...after such a breakup he'll need some affection. It seems like he's slightly using you to keep his lonely phase away. But he could be doing this with other females as well...have you thought of that? You dealed first blood by hurting him...he deals second...he gets last laugh because you want him back, but he doesn't want you. move on honeh~ -Kevyn |
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Xrebel13roseX I'm so lost and broken Apr 27 2005, 08:44 PM
xSWEETxCANDiix Hmm...I think you should tell him how you feel ... Apr 27 2005, 08:50 PM
MyVermilionPlague QUOTE(xSWEETxCANDiix @ Apr 27 2005, 9:50 PM)H... Apr 27 2005, 08:53 PM Chii do you honestly know that he has feelings for you ... Apr 27 2005, 08:52 PM Xrebel13roseX Thanks....Thats what we talked about and he just d... Apr 27 2005, 08:53 PM x3__iGiVEup QUOTEHmm...I think you should tell him how you fee... Apr 28 2005, 11:13 PM iNyCxShoRT Express you feeling toward him.
"Hmm...I thin... Apr 28 2005, 11:15 PM onemanshow talk it thru.. its never too late for anotehr chan... Apr 29 2005, 03:31 AM |
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