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post Apr 27 2005, 05:03 PM
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Okay so here's whats up. There's this guy who goes to my school, I know him but not very well. Anyhow we always comment on each others xanga and what not. It's like I know him more online then in person, so when I see him in person it's like really weird. Today I saw him standing in lines waiting to buy a ticket and I immediately saw him and he looks at me and I move my eyes away.

I'm not sure if he noticed.. so I'm in line for the same thing and I know his there but I'm acting as if I don't know his there. So I'm talking with my friend and I look up and see that he is looking at me and it's like a game where we look at one another other than look away type deal. GAWD... anyhow... is it weird for me to act this way when it's not like I even met him through xanga first.. I met him in person. I want to talk to him without having to feel strange any ideas on how to start talking to him without it being weird for the both of us? Because I think he feels that way too.. I want to put an end to the awkwardness of it.
 
 
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post Apr 27 2005, 08:44 PM
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talk to him about something the two of you wrote on each other's xangas.
 
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post Apr 27 2005, 08:50 PM
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QUOTE(akinachan @ Apr 27 2005, 8:44 PM)
talk to him about something the two of you wrote on each other's xangas.
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i know it's strange, but the best thing to do is try just walking by and saying hi to him(letting him know that you acknowledge he's there


Another great point...

that's a great start...stole the words right out of my mouth.

...you can talk about each other's xanga...talk about family...your family and where you were born then ask him, strike up a conversation about what you like to do, (hobbies, etc.) your opinions on things he likes to do (ask him about it). Or you can even talk about fashion trends..hell, what do I know? I'm giving small talk topics to talk about.

But some advice for you...

...don't be too open with him at first...gain his trust first. IF he sees you're shy and guarded, it's HIS job to make you feel comfortable and to break out of your shell. If he does that over time then you have yourself a great catch. If not, move on and don't weep when he closes the door.

Dont reveal too much about yourself...(Emotional weaknesses, etc.) Keep the chat light but down to the point.

That's definitely not a bad start...see what you can come up with!

-Kevyn
 

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