Parent's divorce, Are anyone else's parents going through Options

[Markov]

My parents are getting a divorce because my dad cheated on my mom. Technically, it's HIS fault, deserting the family and such, but I ... just... don't know... Is anyone else going through this right now? If so, please.... Share... i guess. and if anyone would be kind enough please give me some advice.
Thank you.

[mistaken_identit...]

Well, I NEARLY went through divorce a couple years ago. My dad was cheating on my mum, like yours. I couldn't help but think he's such an a-hole and I hated him so badly cus he was the one who's breaking the whole family apart. I was really hurt...and hearing them fight all the time was awful, so I sort of get how you feel. I think, if they go through divorce you need to be strong...just hold your head up high even if you don't want to and don't let it get to you. It's all the adults doing the wrong thing and just stay cool. I think maybe...maybe you can start thinking about whether you want to stay with your mum/dad which I think most likely you'll want to stay with your mum but well, maybe you like your dad more. To me, at that time, when we NEARLY had to choose I chose my mum 'cause I just can't trust my dad anymore.

Parents getting divorce is an absolutely terrible thing...to me..it was terrible even though they didn't end up like that now. If it really bothers you, I think it'll be good to focus on a hobbie/sport and take your mind off things for a bit. Just remember it's not your fault at all and it's just stupidity of your parents. Don't worry. Everything will turn out fine and you'll get used to it. Good luck and I really hope this'll help. :)